Here's the situation your partner sleeps with someone else but is genuinely sorry and won't do it again. If there was no chance of finding out by other means would you want them to tell you?
By the way this is not a "friend" wants to know type of question I haven't cheated on anyone honest
Personally I wouldn't want to know. I think all too often the cheater confessing is more about making themselves feel better than concern for their partner
Yes I would want to know! When it comes to my life and sexual health I don't play. People act like they're invincible and can't get STDs. I know people with STDs and they sure as hell didn't get it playing pattycake lol! I would want to know what my partner is really capable of when I'm not there, and if I need to be checked out for any diseases
Have you ever seen unfaithful? I recently saw that movie and it definitely gave me a new perspective on cheating, a rather scary one too. Anyways, I would have to say although I believe honesty is the policy, I would rather not know. If there is absolutely positively no way of me ever finding out that the person I'm with had sex with someone else I prefer to never find out because if I did I would be crushed. But this response is unique to your scenario because if my partner had a full blown affair I would want to be aware of the situation so I could break things off!
Yeah I would def want to know. it would be devastating, but I wouldn't want it to eat away at them. And I would probably have them get tested for an std.
It IS a good question. And it's not just about cheating. A partner can betray your trust in lots of other ways, big and small (spending money, taking risks, leaking secrets, etc. ) Let's face it -- - people (especially men! ) are often weak in the face of temptation. Is it better to keep these things from the betrayed partner? Or is it better to come clean? Personally, I want and need my partner to be honest with me, and to tell me what he's done. Almost always, I can and will forgive him, so long as I believe he is being honest with me, and that he will try to do better next time. But maybe that's just me.
I would want to know because I'm not one for sharing and also for health reasons because I wouldn't know where the other person's been and would want to get checked but at the same time I wouldn't want to know because it would just add more weight to my baggage and trust issues. It's a complicated question I like it!
Why thank you Your right about the health issues I was naively assuming in my hypothetical world that everyone is disease free and practices safe sex - 6 months ago
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Lol unfortunately I was being realistic instead of idealistic lol sorry to burst your hypothetical bubble hun =-) - 6 months ago
Given the parameters of your question, if I was the one who did the cheating then I would never tell. If I was the one cheated on then I wouldn't want to know.
It is my opinion that something dies in a relationship when cheating happens. It can be accepted and forgiven (or not) but the relationship will never be the same.
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