If so, what is it that makes you comfortable with it? I'm not comfortable at all with it because I feel that it's disrespectful for a guy to go to a strip club if he's in love with someone. I also don't understand it. Why would a guy go and spend money on an over used cock tease, when he can go and spend that money on the woman he loves and get more than just a tease? Maybe I'm old fashioned or just greedy who knows. Any ladies feel me on this? And guys feel free to share your thoughts on this as well.
Well is he getting the lap dances and such when he goes? If he is also in the military, as you are, then he is probably just going to hang out with the guys. I would often go just to spend time with my friends, long after the excitement of going for the women wore off.
I agree that the money could be better spent elsewhere. In fact when people complain about the cost of something that is around $20, I most often say "Better than spending it in a strip club. "
Well thankfully my boyfriend doesn't go but the thought of "what if he did" crossed my mind. I talked to some girls at work about it and most of them are okay with it. I wouldn't be though and wasn't sure if that meant I am controlling or jealous or just downright weird lol - 3 months ago
Well, I've never been to one. Strip clubs are a cheap waste of money. I'd rather see my woman do a strip tease to me. That's money I can enjoy spending cause I get a return on my investment :) ! Plus, having one that strips and gives the pleasure to just me is something special and worth more than a pole and a lap dance that's been passed around like the dollar bills at those clubs.
I think it all comes down to how much you trust your guy and your values but if they go spend money on it I guess as long as you don't need it but sometimes guys need to feel free to talk about girls or maybe just a self esteem boost having some stranger rubbing off on you lol even if its for money sometimes its just to feel good and to not feel left out from their friends but there are various reasons so I guess its up to how open the relationship is
Well by nature all men are sexually active 24/7 but in my opinion I wouldn't like if my man would go to a strip club cause to me its disrespectful so I agree with you! I just think that if he has somebody shouldn't he only look at that one girl and no one else? But then again if you think about it what guy doesn't look at other females - if he's married he may get tired of his girl and want a girl who looks and acts different! My friend works in a restaurant and this chef who she works with landed a kiss on her by surprise and she was amazed and stayed away from him from that point on cause he's married, he got kids and he's 43 and my friend is 22 how are you going to do that if you have a wife, if you have a family - forget the age - think about it don't you have somebody waiting for you at home and your doing this behind her back - even if he is in an awkward situation with his wife right now he still shouldn't do that! So I definitely feel you on this and my friend would too guys going to strip clubs to me is like a guy cheating on me cause I think this way why would he look at other females if he got me - I guess I don't satisfy him enough! At least that's what I would think!
OMG! I know what you mean! My boyfriend mostly prefers naked strangers than to make love to me! I may be just a bit jealous but he's mine not some girl's who's gonna rub up on him and get paid for it!
Well, this is tough. Personally I don't enjoy the idea of my boyfriend going to strip clubs. He doesn't make a habit of it, but occasionally he'll go with the guys after work. I look at it as a male bonding sort of experience. Like I said, I really don't like it but as long as he's completely honest about where he's going I can't say anything. I've been to one, and I must admit that it can be fun. I don't like him going to one because of jealously, but I choose not to express that because I know that these dancers may spark the fire, but when he comes home I'm the one that puts it out.
I don't like it, but I accept it as a fact of life that some guys need to go to strip clubs (just like some guys seem to need porn). Guys who are like this basically can't help themselves. It's just the way their sexuality works, and it's deep down inside them. But personally I find it a total turnoff, and have always avoided guys who need this sort of thing. Obviously, lots of guys go to strip clubs. But lots of guys don't. If you choose a strip-club loving guy, I'm pretty sure you aren't going to change him. So, if a girl cares about this, she just needs to be careful which type of guy she chooses. That's worked pretty well for me.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
On a first date we go and grab a coffee in a shop and talk about stuff we like, and then based upon mutual interests plan an outing then and there. Clothing should be normal, plain enough for every day to set a standard of how things are. Plus, whatever you go out and do, you should be willing to do it in those clothes, so suede isn't the best if you say you're going to the zoo.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
She'll know what I like, what I'm like, and get an idea of how well I get her.
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