And say that you start dating someone else that you like as well that's in the area you moved to. Is it possible to fall for another person while doing the long distance relationship with another? Is it you don't know what you want? Or just being an A** and having your cake and eating it too? I have guy friends that are 50/50 on this situation figured I'd ask guys on here.
Alot of guys love double dipping because we are d***s, some more than others. Long distance relationships fail a lot because someone can come along and give you that attension and affection you crave while your lover is so many miles away.
It's possible to fall for another person while you're in any relationship. When you get into one, you have to feel that connection that makes you certain that it's all you need for a while, and it can be hard to find that connection with a long-distance relationship. I felt terrible about having to break up with my long-distance girlfriend. So terrible that it made me wish I had never started our relationship. But something just wasn't clicking. Long-distance relationships are incomplete in many ways, and when I started to feel that, I realized that a long-distance relationship wasn't what I needed anymore. I think that that's important to your situation, because when I realized that I needed something different in my life, I broke up with her. I really hurt, but it would hurt worse for both of us to be in a stagnant relationship. The thought of carrying on another relationship behind her back never even occurred to me. Ending the relationship was the responsible thing to do. At the same time, though, I don' know this guy. It is possible that he maybe just wasn't sure that his old relationship would ever take off again, and he didn't think there was a point in bringing it up if it was just going to end. On the other hand, shouldn't you be the first to know something like that? The bottom line is, there are lots of things that could be happening here, but you know this guy way better than any of us. If you're still having this problem, I think you just need to ask yourself if you really trust this guy at heart, and what his motivation might be.
i have been there.. lots of times.. i think it is beter to be friends in a distant relationship.. if you like each other that mutch ,then keep on hanging.. only if you know you will be together within a small time. keep it open.. who knows.. if you find someone else... then it;s time to close it.
Dating is a process of getting to know each other. Do you think the new guy is better than the long distance one? That's the important question. Location should not matter. What about if for some reason you have to move again? You may think you won't move again but you never know! And then what? Find another guy? When will it end?
I think, the better approach is to decide whether to stay with a guy or not based on the individual traits of the guy. Distance or the availability of other guys should not matter. That's because everything else can be worked out somehow.
See its not me who's cheating I'm the girl who's the new one in the town and was just wondering if it was possible he could actually like me and not just be playing me? - 2 months ago
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My bad, sorry! So you are the girl that he may be cheating with. Well, I guess I can slightly modify my second to last statement: "Distance or the availability of other girls should not matter". Hence, in my opinion, if he loves her then the long distance and the fact that you are there should not affect his feeling. I would suggest that you ask him about his long distance girlfriend and see if you can get some clues or feeling of how special she is to him. - 2 months ago
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I have, see they had broken up quite a few months back when we first met but I guess as we've been talking & hanging out they decided they missed each other & were trying again. He didn't let me know this fact Then about 4 weeks ago we actually went out on a real date then 3 more but he never tried anything til 2 weeks ago & then I acciddently found out about the girlfriend & I told him I knew & I don't know what I want to do He apologized for lying a few times & says if it means anything I like being - 2 months ago
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With you... lol sorry it wouldn't let me fit that into it - 2 months ago
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So, they broke up, you got together with him, then he got back together with the old girlfriend? That does not sound good to me. It sounds like he likes her better than you - if he likes you. - 2 months ago
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