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How do I get my ex back and regain his trust even though he has a new girl?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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My ex and I haven't talked as far as being together in almost a month in a half or two> he's been talking to this new girl for 5 months now but she's been his girlfriend for only two. My ex and I were together for 4 years and I've hurt him> I have never cheated on him. NEVER. I talked to other males thought and it hurt him. I still love him a lot an its killing me to be without him. I really want him back and I would do anything for it.. Not humiliate myself.. But anything else I would. I need help on trying to get him back. I'm a Leo women and he's a Taurus male. I love him so much. He tells me he loves me still and that I'm his first love so he'll always love me but what do I do?


Update: I currently live with his family. I cook I clean and he seems re interested in me. He claims to not trust me so he's confused on his decision.should I stay away from intimate acts with him?    A month ago

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disturbed1
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disturbed1      When: 21 days ago
Uh well I'm a taurus and this may just be me but if he thinks you are cheating or will cheat or gave him any impression of the sort then it's probably too late. I know I wouldn't if I were under that impression then that would be it and since he found someone else then yeah that sounds like it. But since you live with his family that gives you a good advantage so if you want to keep trying. Hope I helped!
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stktder
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stktder      When: 25 days ago
I am a Taurus male 51 years old, I 've been there and done it. You Leo women are very affectionate but also social. The social is a NO, NO to a Taurus male. Think of it like this, imagine a bull out in a pasture, he has his females all around. If one of his females wanders off, he just gets closer and closer to what he has left. However, if that female that wandered off should get in trouble, then he will come to your rescue and beat the crap out of the other guy. I am not telling you to do this, but if you want this guy then you got to understand he is extremely jealous. He does not want you paying any attention to any other guys. So now, you got a big decision to make, do you want him that much, or do you want to move on. From the horoscope, you and him are NOT suppose to get along at all.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: A month ago
If he really loved you, he wouldn't be with that new girl. Plain and simple. Why did you break up to begin with?

If he continues to be with that new girl, then I'd suggest you move on. Him being with her is a sign that he has gotten over you and is moving along with his life.
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Question Asker Well we broke up because I did some things to hurt him in the past... he claimed he didn't trust me and in april we went on a "break".. he complains about her alot>>should I avoid intimate acts with him? - A month ago

jimmajam
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jimmajam      When: 2 months ago
Just live your life and wait. Rebounds have a way of not working out. When and if he breaks up with the other girl reintroduce yourself as being interested. I don't condone trying to break them up. If he realizes you're behind it he could end up hating you.
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fashionistadoll
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fashionistadoll      When: A month ago
i know what you are going through . I love my ex and I have hurted him to and know he is not talking to me and there is a new girl in the picture . I don't know want to do but I'll try to help you out. you can change up or look to make him notice you or make him fall in love w. the girl he fell in love w. to begin with . be the same girl he was in love with . give him space . make him come back to you . no guy wants a crying over emotional ex . be cool and act like you don't care
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SJknows
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SJknows      When: A month ago
Well what a pickle. Those words tend to hurt more than they heal that's for sure. The problem with your cry for help is it is all about you, if you love him like you say you do you should really look and she is it best for him? A relationship is give and take and sometimes you only get one chance to show you a giver not just a taker. It seems he is still in love with you and this girl may be a rebound but she may be a safe choice. Now when you have just gotten out of a serious relationship there are two choices the safe way and the dangerous leap of faith. He is with a girl he feels will not hurt him and when he looks at you knowing he will always love you but knowing to go back with you he's chancing pain again. I'm not saying to go around breaking people up because you want someone, that's not a very nice thing to do especially if he is happy, it will only make him stay away from you more. You need to start off as friends show him who he loved is still there and IS changing for the better because of your love for him. No guarantees he'll drop his new girl to go back to you though. He might just want to play it safe for a while. Be there for him as a friend show him you still care but won't ruin his happiness, that way if something happens your who will be there to help him and make him feel better.
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TaurusFemmeFatale
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TaurusFemmeFatale      When: A month ago
You're in luck---

I happen to be a Taurus! Although I am a Taurus woman, nevertheless we possess the same traits as Taurus males. The best way to win him over will be to establish some closeness with his family, cook him dinner, suprise him with desserts, wear scented perfumes, look very attractive, and keep your flirtations to a minimum, Ms LEO. When he ask you if you're seeing anyone, tell him 'No.' You will have to be real persistent! While doing so, do everything in your power to make him laugh (This man has a funny bone). Taurus natives are very jealous and territorial...so you will have some serious butt-kissing to do to redeem yourself. LOL (No offense).

Judging by the duration of his present relationship, he may still have some feelings for you. He may be approaching his new relationship a little more guarded, based on his expereince with you. Therefore, he may not have developed lukewarm feelings for her yet! He is going to continue to observe and watch you (without you knowing), not in a stalker-sortish way, but he will ask about you from many different people, and observe how you carry yourself from afar. Tauruses, this is what we do! So you will have to play up the 'nun' cater to only you routine, until he gives in!

Taurus Natives are also artisitic, musical concerts, art shows, dance contests will always win him over! The Butt-kissing will be worth the wait, because these men make excellent fathers, husbands and providers...


-Good Luck!
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