Friendship question

I pretty much believe that guys in the back of their minds would find any of their "girl/friends" F***able.
that doesn't mean they'll act on them I'm just saying I think that every guy that is friends with a girl and I mean pretty good friends with a girl will if they had to find her boneable lol.

a guy and girl can be just friends...it is totally possible and very VERY COMMON, nothing wrong with that...especially during the years of college

however I don't think it lasts for long, at least not as intense of a friendship it used to be once you grow older. I can't really explain in detail why, because its such a huge debate, but I always look at my parents as an example, or other successful married couples or even couples in a serious relationship...it's extremely rare that your parents keep good contact with their old female friends or guy buds from back in the day...i mean there must be some reason to it...no?

I have just been thinking about that. With girls, they talk about different things and do different things. Like most girls I know talk about boys and friend problems where as guys either joke the whole time or talk about stuff related to violence.

I've been friends with a guy for almost 7 years. For some reason, I preferred friendships with guys when I was younger. Girls my age were rude, superficial and selfish. Guys aren't like that at all, at least the guys I hung out with.

When you're friends with a guy, a lot of things are assumed at first glance. A lot of people believed we were in a romantic relationship, and some thought we had a sexual relationship. It was neither. We've known each other for years.

It is nowhere near being friends with a girl. Guys are more impulsive and act on whims, which makes the friendship a lot more fun.

Ok, I'm gonna contradict the other answers and say that there isn't a definite difference. Every friendship is different, regardless of sex. I completely disagree that guys don't get jealous, and I disagree with the assumption that girls are more jealous. If we were the jealous sex, then flirting with other guys to get a certain guy's attention wouldn't work. I do get jealous, but I have friends who are totally chill. Both sexes are competitive in different ways, both sexes have ways to undermine each other, and both sexes get emotional. So it depends on the people.

Guy/Girl friendships don't always have to be born out of some kind of affection, either. Two people can be friends and feel nothing romantic for each other. It shouldn't change just because the gender does. The only thing I can think of as different would be the subjects of conversation. There are some things guys talk about that should stay between guys, and some things girls talk about that should stay between girls.

i've found that most guys either talk about what they're feeling (girls, friends, w/e) in a subtle, kind of casual way; or they talk about movies or activities, and joke around a lot. and as far as guy-girl friendships go, most of my girl-friends either talk about common interests, various problems, or events, and are generally more open about their feelings. so it's pretty different.

I don't personally believe in boy/girl friendship anymore, you can't be so close to a girl and it just stops right there, I'm not blaming the state of friendship itself but I'm blaming those bad girls and jerks that have ruined real friendship between friends.

There is a type of girls I hate like hell, one that has male friends all over and they just keep counting up, you know how does it feel like being with such a girl? ALL HER MALE FRIENDS FANCY HER! so really what is a boyfriend to her? not a big deal really, she can choose another one in one night. She has loads of male friends and some "special" close ones 'cause she loves men and loves to stay with them with a good excuse, not because of school or work or anything, they just go out, drink, and have some parties fun and some "touching" maybe, and in nightclubs it might contain some innocent "grinding". If she was single, then I prefer not to mention how it's like for these girls.

Same as for the guys that type, you can't really find a normal real man being surrounded by many females and still acting pure. A guy like that is either fancies her, trying to hit on her, trying to hit on her female friends, or just trying his luck within the group... best of all, he waits till that girl gets upset in her relationship so he can take her out and prove that he is the ultimate "man" friend that gives support and yet not asking directly for sex! this is the perfect man for some girls, so, he takes her in a heartbeat! ... if he wasn't like any of that, then he is most likely gay.

I'm not sure I understand the question fully, But I'm guessing you're trying to figure out if a friendship with a girl is any different than a friendship with a guy?

Guy/guy, girl/girl, guy/girl friendships are all different in their own ways, guys have all sorts of levels of friendship but since guys are less emotional it's more often a question of respect even in competition and such. Girls tend to be more adversarial wanting to outdo each other but it's more often passive a aggressive style even in their loyalty to each other.

Guy and girl friendships have problems because they first need to establish that it's not going to be anything other than friendship, usually it means that their might be some flirting until one side firmly lays down the fact that nothing will happen, at this point it becomes it's own style of friendship different from either of the others because there are things guys will do with other guys and things girls do with other girls that they simply can not do together without making things weird. The friendship is possible but it's a constant ballancing act

guys are cool and about guys friendship is better than gals and gals friendship...
Guys don't have any jealous with their frnds but gals have...

and about guy and gal friendship... it too good and better than these two
guy and gal frndship have some feeling like emotions, funny and etc.. and
u remeber after broke... in it you will share all your feeling with a girl and
she gave you right way of any ur question regarding gals,

Best friendship is guy and girl frndship...