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How do you personally feel about interracial relationships/marriage?

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Crazycanuck (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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Do you support it, or are you against the idea

Please be honest...I dare you


Update: for the record the dare was for people who don't agree with it. so for the 4% (so far) that disagree please tell me why.    2 months ago

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I support it 100%

I personally disagree with it

What ever floats peoples boats

I don't really care

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ashleyynicholee
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ashleyynicholee      When: 12 days ago
I don't think that interracial relationships are wrong, but I would never be in one..That's just the way I was raised.
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Standingpretty
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Standingpretty      When: 2 months ago
It's fine, whatever people want to do is what they should be able to do. People who dissagree probably wish that every race stay in it's "purest" form.
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English-rose
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English-rose      When: 2 months ago
I support it. I am a product of one myself although it didn't work out for unrelated reasons.

My brother (half if you want to get technical) is black and his wife (again, if you want to get technical not legally) is white, they've been together for 14 years and have 3 kids so I know it can work out. Also I know 3 other couples in interracial relationships that are still together.'

Also although I know I might and wouldn't mind falling in love with a black or white guy I'd love to marry someone who is neither of my races so our kids would be even more mixed! lol

Whatever makes people happy!
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
I don't see anything wrong with interracial relationships.
You're attracted to those whom you are attracted to. Race shouldn't matter in any circumstance.
[personally, I have never understood the point of view of those who are racist - it doesn't make sense to me at all]
A person is a person. Who the hell cares what color they are?
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GirlThatsConfused
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GirlThatsConfused      When: 2 months ago
i think its fine, but I'm not saying everyone should. I said C. if you like them, who cares what race they are.
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Unique_Musician
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Unique_Musician      When: 2 months ago
I totally agree. even thogh my grandpa totally doesn't and my mom sorta little tiny bit doesnt.
i happen to be in a relationship with a black man now :D he's amazing
and please can someone answer my question on my page plez I really need help
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
Im an asian and I always pray to God to give me just one of his Irish or American son whom I can love be loved and have a mixed race family. Then I'll be happy :D and will always be thankful to him.
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stefaniaa
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stefaniaa      When: 2 months ago
I support it 100%. I'm in one & I have been in one for 3 years. I can't even consider myself being with a white guy. It just has no feeling for me. There is no connection and I just don't feel the same way.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
I totally support it (I am in one) and my family and friends are 100% okay with it too. There is no reasonable objection to it really.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
I don't personally care what people do-if it doesn't directly affect me I could care less...however, I have been there and done that...i am a white girl that dated a black guy and my parents flipped...my mom didn't like it but didn't take it to the extreme my dad did...my did didn't speak to me for 8 years and I was only with the guy for a little over a year...but I have to respect my dad's feelings on it although he didn't really respect mine...in the end that dude wasn't worth my dad...no dude is regardless of color...but I am pretty sure I will stick with my own race from now on...i know I am going to get some flack for that and that is ok...but my dad isn't worth any guy...
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Milton
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Milton      When: 2 months ago
i said "c" what ever floats your boat.

and its basically true. I mean I never really thought anything against it. I never thought much of it at all. its similar to gay marriage, but less talked about. I guess you could say I support it. I don't think its weird or wrong.
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sweetnsassy23
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sweetnsassy23      When: 2 months ago
race or even gender shouldnt matter.as long as two people love each other...who am I to judge?
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audreymarie21
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audreymarie21      When: 2 months ago
i don't have enough time or care to try and control how other people live their lives. not to mention, technically, I am in an interracial relationship. my boyfriend is half Thai, but you can't even tell. I think interracial couples out number the rest.
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exoticlatina
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exoticlatina      When: 2 months ago
Anyone should eb able to date whoever they want, regardless of race. Its your life. LIVE IT!
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
Its not a big deal at all I mean ALOT of people in the world hav more than 1 race in their family. I'm jamacian and indian but my boyfriend is mexican. I think its cute and you like whoever you like.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy      When: 2 months ago
I'm for it. If you find love outside your race congratulations because many people aren't lucky enough to find it at all. I don't know why other people care about interracial relationships. If it's not your personal cup of tea, fine but why be so crazy about it? Other people's relationships don't affect others more people need to mind their business.
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autumn_wind
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autumn_wind      When: 2 months ago
I don't think it's an issue at all. I don't think many people even think about it that way.
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mormongirlmichl
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mormongirlmichl      When: 2 months ago
Totally support it! To me there should be no such word as interracial relationship...it should simply be seen as a relationship.
I'm being totally honest... :)
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jrose
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jrose      When: 2 months ago
I figure it's up to the couple, it certainly doesn't bother me to see two people of different races together. Although, it is rather unusual where I'm from because we simply don't have a very diverse ethnic population. I know to some people in my area it would be a big deal, but I've always wondered, are people who live in urban areas with all kinds of different races together more accepting of it?
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Question Asker Yes we are...where I live about 1/3 to1/2 of all couples are interraccal and no one really cares..personally I never really thought about it untill I saw some videos on youtube. - 2 months ago
ALWAYSclassy Yeah it seems like it. I'm from a not-so urban area and there are a lot of people who frown on it - 2 months ago

HopeIessRomantik
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HopeIessRomantik      When: 2 months ago
I could have chosen A, C or D, because I really don't see what's wrong with it. Different cultures getting together makes life more interesting! Lots of things to learn from each other, and people who don't agree with it need to realize that we're all still the same species, just a different skin color.
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katiesmuff
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katiesmuff      When: 2 months ago
I've been in an interracial relationship for quite some time now and it is fine. We still get the rude remarks from time to time from the racists and bigots, but we just consider the source.

This is something that requires a bit more work if it is going to work and be a long lasting thing.
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bking
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bking      When: 2 months ago
i have no problem with interracial relationships. what it comes down to is whether or not the two people in the relationship love each other, not their race.
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What Guys Said

Jimbob
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Jimbob      When: A month ago
I think it's generally a bad idea, just because different races usually mean different ways of life. And people just naturally get along better with people who are like them. It's not a racial thing for me, just a common sense one that says why would you marry someone that you're going to have little in common with by default?
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troyboy6845
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troyboy6845      When: 2 months ago
I think the man wanted ever one to stay within thar race.the man being god hay what can I say but love y'a.?
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EddyMetal
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EddyMetal      When: 2 months ago
C and D mean the same thing -_-
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Question Asker I know.....wasn't thinking straight - 2 months ago

cjwright79
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cjwright79      When: 2 months ago
I really really really really really am into the whole cross-cultural exchange deal. It's for the betterment of everyone.
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angel-gt
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angel-gt      When: 2 months ago
The human race is nurtured by freedom.Nombody can say anything against interracial relationships.Besides,we all love and smile in the same way,if not for the same reasons
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Toban_Frost
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Toban_Frost      When: 2 months ago
Do you really need to dare us?

Especially me, when do you ever need to dare me to speak my mind about anything? lol

I voted D because I never cared one way or another. Race never mattered to me really. I've dated black girls, an (East) Indian girl, a couple Métis girls (anyone outside of Canada may want to look that one up.), and a few white girls. Frankly I never saw it as an issue but some people have given me sh*t for it. Especially when I dated a black girl. For some reason people thought I was dating her for her race and thought I'd just use her and dump her, when the truth is I was with her for a very long time and it ended with her breaking my heart.

Anyway the point I was initially making is this. I don't care. I don't care because frankly I don't think interracial couples or marriages are a big deal in the slightest. Yes there are some other people that might raise an eyebrow or those who might make a big deal about it but frankly to me the matter of who you date really isn't all too important so long as whoever you're with treats you right and makes you happy. When you get down to it, does anything else really matter?
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Question Asker Thanx for your feed back..I know us Canadians are more openminded about it. (even though you and I bothkonw that we still have some ignorit assholes up here too)....however the dare was to see the "Other point of veiw,,,So far no real feed back from the red necks.. - 2 months ago

musician13
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musician13      When: 2 months ago
Why the hell is it even considered a big deal? Those that are against it are obviously harboring some strong prejudices against one or both of the races involved, and those that are pushing for it come across as the same type that created "black history month" and other such nonsense ideas. We are all people, why can't that just be accepted in this modern age? Why does any one race need to be treated specially? Black History Month is a farce because people of all races should be included in the regular teachings of history. This idea that an "interracial couples" movement is needed is just as big a farce, because that just makes being an interracial couple a big deal when it really shouldn't be, it should just viewed as two people in a relationship. Nothing more, and nothing less.
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Camilus
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Camilus      When: 2 months ago
Is that a double-dog dare?

How I feel about other people interracially dating: don't care

How I feel about dating interracially myself: I'm good with it as long as we have compatible cultures and things in common
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therockcomic
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therockcomic      When: 2 months ago
Im all for it.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
the question isn't here, no body has a problem with that anymore, the old people and some parents still have a racist look over the topic, but that's ending... the real problem is mixed religion relationships/marriage, who supports it and how many won't reject a perfect match because they practice a different religion or have a different background.
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DyingAngel I'm with you on that topic. That is starting to became the deal break for some relationships. - 2 months ago

WeaponZero
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WeaponZero      When: 2 months ago
I don't see anything wrong with it. I really don't see it as being even an issue worth discussing because in an ideal society it would be so commonplace it wouldn't even be a controversial topic.
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jusabarasida
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jusabarasida      When: 2 months ago
i support it. but at the same time . if I put myself in the situation, I'm afraid that my identity will be lost.. like my heritage will be forgotten.. so in the end, I might end up marrying within my own race and language.. etc.
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dfrazmabel
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dfrazmabel      When: 2 months ago
i really don't mind, I personally find any race just as good looking as another, although I do hav an asian chick fetish but who doesn't :P (not being racist there)
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