Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We have each others' Facebook and msn passwords, and we tell each other everything. He's even told me he is going to marry me. He has one particular friend that I hate...his BEST friend Cody. I dislike Cody because he seems to be a bad influence on him. His friend thinks I'm too controlling because I do not allow my boyfriend to party, drink, or go to bars without me. His friend Cody has been single for as far back as I can remember, and in my opinion he's just jealous of our relationship. I don't trust my boyfriend to do those things without me. No matter how much trust I have in him, I do not have control over what others could possibly do with him since he his very attractive, and I hate it when other girls talk to him. We've been fighting a lot lately, and he's been calling me obsessive and controlling. Am I wrong to feel all these things? What should I do?
Well I don't want to sound offensive but if you don't trust him to go out to and drink with out you don't trust him at all. no relationship can last without trust. his friend has a point you are being controlling over his life. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if your boyfriend wouldn't let you do something fun with your best friend. if he really loves you he won't cheat on you. if he doesn't then he will cheat on you and ruin your relationship. however, if you don't trust him then that will also ruin your relationship. Let him go out and drink.
Well it's not wrong to worry, but if it comes to the point where he can't go out and have fun with his bestfriend.. then there is something wrong.. You could try asking yourself why you feel the way you do. Since you two have been fighting a lot lately, maybe you feel insecure, or more worried than usual. And those feelings cause more fights... It is totally normal to feel that way in your current status, but you have to talk to him about it so you two can fix it, before it gets worse.
As for you being too controlling... Not letting your boyfriend hang out with his bestfriend, and not being able to go out with the guys... is kinda controlling. If it bothers you THAT much, then try to figure out why it does, and talk to him about it, so you can come up with some kind of compromise.
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