I cheated on my boyfriend whom I love very much. At the time I met this new guy my boyfriend and I were broken up, after we got back together I continued seeing the new guy. My boyfriend found out, I lied about it, and eventually confessed. Now he rightfully doesn't trust me. How do I start proving to him that he can trust me? I realize I made a huge mistake and I want him back. I can't imagine my life without him now. At the time I did this it was so confusing because we had broken up, got back together, and there was the excitement of a new guy, I f*cked up large. Any advice?
"I cheated on my boyfriend whom I love very much" *sigh* obviously not enough. No point realising the mistake now, it should have been obvious to you from the moment you was cheating on him at the beginning of getting back together all the way through to getting caught then again when you lied about it, I would say good on him for catching you out because I seriously doubt you would have voluntarily ended the situation and been honest about it.
My advice leave him to someone who deserves him and you take a lesson from this and don't make the same mistake next time. Poor guy.
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Well it will be tough to earn 100% of his trust back. You just need act like you did before all this happened and wait for him to trust you again. It will come back. Don't let it bother you if he questions you a lot at first because he probably will. If you show it doesn't really bother you then he knows you are not scared of it and might be lying. Just be honest with him. It will come back sooner then you think
You obviously didn't love him enough because you cheated. He has the right to preserve his dignity and pride. Just move on. Live and learn. Also remember karma is a b itch.
I would pray about it, and take it one day at a time with him, not to rush anything, and let him have room to live life, and have some time on his own to see what has been going on, and if he wants to give you another try. if you're constantly in his face or trying to make it up to him hell never have a minuet to sit and think. good luck
You probably never will. My ex cheated on me after 10 months. We were together for four years and I never trusted him again, and I tried so hard to trust him again. This is why the relatinship ended. Yeah, it still affected us that much after over three years.
Like jedwilliams92 said, your guy will question you A LOT, due to lack of trust and insecurities (old & new). All you can do is vouch for how sorry you were for you mistake and resist temptation. I am a little perplexed, are you guys broken up or trying to mend the relationship?
I have been in a similar situation. (Message/IM if you want more details.<- ONLY to question asker.) From my experience I can say always remember "honesty is the best policy. "
I know this wasn't much advice, but I hope it helped.
well I think you should take a break and start over again after youve dealt with the guilt and he's dealt with it in his own way. I just don't see any other way you're both going to get past this.
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