Ok so here's the deal. I've been with my girlfriend for the best 14months of my life. but lately things have in a way started to go down hill. And I like to hope its not because of me. She says I am the best thing to ever happen in her life, just as she is to me. I get and give her everything I can possibly give and so does she. right now your thinking we actually have a good relationship. but here's the problem. about a week ago I found out that my girlfriends "best mate" (who is a guy) stayed the night at hers and guess who didn't know. Yeap me! its not the fact that we stayed, its the fact SHE DIDN'T TELL ME! The reason I found out was her dad saying oh did (insert name here) leave his top here! what really pissed me off was that she got upset for me getting upset. (which I had every right to) i was upset for him staying. Well not fully. But I no he likes her. And she knows it to, she denies it. But you all know when people drink the truth comes out. And one night while he was drinking he openly admitted that he liked her! what do I do? she makes me feel like the ass when it wasn't my bed deed!
Like the girls said below, talk to her and give it a few days for you to cool down because like my ma says two heated people won't solve anything. You know maybe she got upset because she thinks you don't trust her. Who knows, all I can say is talk to her and good luck!
There is no reason in the world why a guy should stay at a girl's house (esp when she has a bf) if he lives within a decent driving distance. If he's from out of town or something then maybe he didn't want to drive three hours or something. Even if it's snowing they should plan accordingly so as not to get into a bad situation.
Ok, with that said, you know he likes her and he's obviously very uncaring about your feelings towards her. I'd wait a couple days to clear your head before bringing this up again to her. Maybe she feels guilty and didn't want to ruin things. I think honesty is the best policy, but some people just don't seem to get that. If she really doesn't understand why this is wrong, that's one thing. You can calmly explain it to her. If she additionally doesn't care that you're upset and willing to change her behavior, I'd say start looking for a new girl that will make a much better match for you.
Your profile says you're under 18, so just remember, college isn't that far away ;)
He lives about...30-40min max from her house.. not raining or anything and her excuse and I'm guessing his was.. he would be home all alone.. he's 18!! I mean wtf! yah 18 in about 6 months :) - 5 months ago
Second time tonight. I'm not stalking you btw. Give her a chance to redeem herself in your eyes. But this thing with the other dude. You should keep and eye out. Cos this isn't looking good at all. Down hill was the right word to use.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would suggest a small hike on a peaceful trail followed by a nice home-cooked meal, made by me of course, either on-site or back at one of our places. After dinner is over and the conversation has died the date would end with a kiss on the hand and a walk to the car.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date would know what I am about, who I am, a little about what I do and hopefully whether or not I am a candidate for a second round.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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