A guy is buying my girlfriend presents when she moves in her new house

Don't mention it, just tell her you feel uncomfortable, if she loves you and truly care she'd take care of the situation, GIRLS UNDERSTAND HINTS ! Just say it one time, she'll understand..
it's irritating when you ask her to don't talk to him or something, like an order, here trouble comes!

Ouch, ouch, OUCH! He's stepping up on her...
...claim your territory or lose the war!

The less of an issue you make it - the less it will be one. Invite the guy over to dinner so you can show him what an great guy you are and "declare" yourself as her boyfriend simply by being present.

He shouldn't have done that but it's water under the bridge now. How you respond is the key. Show your confidence (even if you don't feel it!) Women do it all the time.

The gifts sound completely 'innocent.' It was a very nice gesture. I don't think the physiotherapist is the problem in your relationship, perhaps, amybe just yourt insecurities about the relationship. If you think that she may stray because your relationship has hit a rocky patch, then the best thing to do is to keep communication lines open in your relationship.


FYI: She invited you to drink the champagne. my guess is, you have nothing to worry about...

except ur super confident and don't care if she cheats, this siuation really sucks:gf having a charming male friend.
ur safe now,she;s happy with u.but when you get into a fight and she gets really depressed she probs will turn to him and u-know-what may happen.
it actually depends on her tho.not much you can do.well,justy be nice to her.bless you LOL

Choose your battles. It is good etiquette to give house warming presents. Just look at it as one less thing you have to buy her =) When other guys buy me drinks at the bar that's how my boyfriend looks at it, it's just money saved.

It depends on

a. what kind of girl your girlfriend is
b. how much you trust her
c. how much trust you have for yourself -- in choosing a girl with personal integrity

Where there is no trust, there is no love. (Think of someone you don't trust, do you get a feeling of love? No.) When there is no trust in a private relationship, that is also the time to end it.

Trust your gut feelings. They don't belong to your day-to-day emotions, but are the "I just know" type.

Stay strong man. Is this guy single, married, what?

Either way, it's normal for friends to buy gifts when someone gets a new house. From what I read he didnt' even deliver it himself or go to the house to deliver it? It's a nice gesture. And hell, she's not hiding it and she invited YOU to eat HIS ice cream and drink HIS champagne.

I agree with the other answerer, communication is key. Don't straight up ask her if ther is anything to it unless you absolutely can't get your peace of mind. Just keep communication open.

I think communication is key in situations like this. She may find him physically attractive, but have no other interest in him, and you would be feeling threatened by absolutely nothing. Just tell her how you feel, and it will speak wonders of your character. She will see that you are willing to be up front with your insecurities, but that you aren't paranoid, simply worried. Accept her answer in the matter. She may even appreciate your ability to discuss your feelings so openly. Even if she does have some attraction towards him, talking it over like adults my show her that you are twice the man that he is, and resolve any doubts in her head about your relationship.

If she lies to you or goes around with him behind your back, she was simply never worth it.