Ménage à trois actually means household of three, and relationship with three people.
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now, but he is still in high school and 2 years younger than me. He lives with his single father who is in his late 30's. My boyfriend and I had a great relationship but then things started to change, I started to really mature (and I had been told I was mature for my age as it was) and our relationship began to strain. I still love my boyfriend and want to stay with him, but I am also falling in love with his father.
My boyfriend's father is everything my boyfriend is not. We have been flirting for at least 4 months now however we haven't done anything physical yet. At first this relationship would drive me insane. I would get upset every time I spoke to my boyfriend because I felt guilty about the budding relationship with his father. Eventually I finally told my boyfriend that I had feelings for his father, however I told him I would never act on them.
I have been slowing easing my boyfriend into thinking about having a three-way relationship and I have been slowing building my relationship with his father as well.
I did not ask for this predicament, but the heart wants what the heart wants. I am asking for advice if anyone has even been in a three-way relationship (not a threesome guys come on), has ever had feelings like this before, and plainly just your opinions.
I understand that maybe I should wait until my boyfriend matures, but it's not that easy...I love both him and his father for different reasons, and they both love me too. (Also I am 18.)
Update: My boyfriend says he would be okay with it and might actually like it better and I am so happy, now I just have to speak with his father about the matter =]
A month ago
Save them both the hearth ache and the pain in the ass, also saving yourself too, by leaving your man and never talking to either again. It would be best for all three of you. What a sh*tty father to hit on his son's love, that is if you're not entirely misreading the situation. You may be assuming there is more feelings there than he actually has for you. And for you to stick around after developing feelings for his father is very selfish of you too. Stop thinking about what you want and think about what is best for everyone, which is not a three way relationship between father and son.
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