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Julia_Dorst (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 8 months and we're really happy together^^

It just sucks that I'm always broke... 'Cause he always buys me things and is incredible understanding and sweet and just perfect^^ But
I can't buy him stuff... Or take him out or something... And it sucks!

So what are some original ideas that I can do with him and for him? Like when he comes over here and stuff^^

Thank you!


Update: I mean like cute romantic things, and fun things and stuff like that.     A month ago

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pk123
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pk123      When: A month ago
I upped all of these just because I like all the suggestions and wish people would *not* rely on turning cash into gifts as an option of first resort.

Something that hasn't been mentioned yet? Scrapbooking! No, you don't have to give him an entire scrapbook, but the skills you gain in drawing, creating, and assembling pieces would let you make a very nice card when those "obligatory occasions" roll around. Hallmark, eat your heart out! There are often groups for people with an interest in it, so you could also get some time with other girls (usually women older than you, but oh well ha) too.
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bitesizedonut +1 :D - A month ago
LovePHD Love the Scrapbook idea... - A month ago

mgvacha
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mgvacha      When: A month ago
Its really nice that you want to return whatever's been given to you. From a guys point of view the fact that you really appreciate what's been done is reward enough. at the same time do agree that it gets a little stale in the course of time
what sort of activities does your Boyfriend like doing.. try to do them together.. even if they are things you don't like make a genuine effort to enjoy it with him.. fun thing would be to go to the amusement park together.. and trying to win something for him... the emphasis on trying to win something for him.. shows that you are ,making effort...plus you have great fun too..
i think you are too young for cooking food and the romantic dinner stuff...but then why not give it a try .. you never know if it might turn outto be romantic..
one thing which I would think is really neat for the two together is water sports...whole lot of fun... and lots of fond memories to take back home too
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Question Asker Thanks for the response^^ I'm 17 btw^^ - A month ago
ArtistBboy I like your response. The part of "make a genuine effort to enjoy the activity"-
This is a big pet peeve when I take someone out on a date together, and all they want to do is complain without trying it.

Great points, I'd love to read more but gotta go, I have homework! - A month ago
LovePHD "fun thing would be to go to the amusement park together.. and trying to win something for him... "

Costy
- A month ago

IntentionalAccident
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IntentionalAccident      When: A month ago
When in doubt, movie nights are the perfect solution. I've been with my fiance for almost 8 years now and we could never ever say no to a movie night. All you need is a good (or bad) movie, some popcorn, and a blanket and you'll be set!
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ArtistBboy
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ArtistBboy      When: A month ago
Find out his favorite meal and cook it with a candle light dinner setting- flirt with him while eating dinner. <-- truthfully it seems awkward that you would want that much romance so early in the relationship.. but ill provide other ideas "just in case"!

Throw on some pjs and a cute tee shirt and watch some movies while your cuddling with him.
Dang, your under 18 =( sorry but it is my preference to leave out "some of the ideas".

Some more ideas:
Leave a cute note for him like "hun I miss you!" at his doorstep or on his pillow if you can get inside, he will see it... eventually.. When he does he will smile

Take him to go throw a frisby, or hiking, swimming, or sitting in a hot spring.
You could get a neighbors dog and take it for walks while you guys are walking.. Make some money to buy him stuff and still spend time with him while laughing over the dog.

... idk, I'm just thinking at random- I mean... what would you want? if you want me to give you a dictionary of methods I like, let me know and ill list of years of ideas ^_^
Thanks!
ArtistBBoy
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Question Asker Hihi^^ I always love reading your answer:) And I know I'm under 18^^ but I'm only 6 months under it:P
I like the dogwalking idea alot:D - A month ago
Answerer Thanks lol I appreciate that ^_^ You got me to smile with your compliment (I was late to work *frown*)

Anyways, I'm glad you like that dog walking idea- ill try to come up with some more... Keep in mind that you don't want to take anymore than 1 dog, or you will spend more time with the dogs- than you will with him.

Good luck!
ArtistBBoy
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Stoidy
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Stoidy      When: A month ago
I've got the cash problem, so I know how this feels. We do a lot of window shopping, looking at cats at the store, parks, rivers...there's a lot that can be done with just walking around and talking.

Go camping! Cost you 10 bucks for the campsite. We use camping as a vacation quite often.
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ryanontario      When: A month ago
well there is always things to do that don't cost much , like you could go for a walk to the park or do downtown and look thru some stores , mean you can look for free and don't have to buy anything . there's lots of outdoor options that are basicsally free if you think about it . like the beach , parks , hiking trails etc .
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Question Asker Yeah we do that^^ and it always fun:D But I want like something romantic indoors:) - A month ago
 

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jackiejean
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jackiejean      When: A month ago
maybe bake cookies together or make him dinner. you could also get out of the house and go on a picnic. or just do crafts together, fly a kite, or just do activities you used to do when you were kids, because it still can be fun. :)
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nikita      When: A month ago
Maybe you can cook him a meal? and just let him know that you appreciate everything he does. I know my boyfriend would rather me cook for him than go out with me anywhere. Most guys love it when their girl cooks for them :)
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Esparagus
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Esparagus      When: A month ago
I'm in the opposite situation from you -sort of. My guy has a job but most of his money goes to his bills and his daughter. I don't mind buying things for him because I know he truly appreciates it and it makes me happy to make him happy. He does little things for me like sends sweet texts when I don't expect and picks me up randomly to go to the park, ect. ect.

Like the others have suggested, it's not money that makes the person. Find little things that will show him you care.
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lovecraze      When: A month ago
well on a rainy day, say your cored and go for a walk...ditch the umbrella and give him a great big kiss... this sweet romantic move conveys soo many feelings... its bound to be remembered... or else... a movie night.. cook him up some sute finger food and feed him and play around with him... or else leave a love letter in his notebook or someplace he can find easily... this usually makes him smile... or else..how bout this, find his favorite chocolate and paste a note on it saying... you are soooo sweet... he will love it.. there's many more, depends on the guy... I guess, but its the unsaid and simple gestures that count so don't worry about the money... ;p Good luck! HAve fun!
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nicky360
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nicky360      When: A month ago
cook dinner for him, light some candles, set the table. or make a picnic, go for a hike at the park, or surprise him by blindfolding him, lighting candles and giving him a massage.
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bitesizedonut
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bitesizedonut      When: A month ago
I took a jar and mad lots of origami stars and hearts and put them all to the brim inside of it... took me hours to do and left my fingers raw and bleeding by the end of it. I wrote him a cute note to go with it - I don't remember exactly what I wrote but it went something like, "out of all the stars I could wish on, the one that brought me you was my favourite. Out of all the hearts I could have had, yours is the best."

I'm not saying you should do that exactly, put putting time and effort into a cute/romantic project may go a long way.

Make him a special dessert (something that is his favourite, just for him). Write him notes and leave them in the middle of his textbooks. Make coupons for him for one free night out with the guys, one free day of video games with him, one free foot massage, free cuddle time, etc. etc.

Plant a garden together :)

Get creative :D go to the beach, grab some coffee at a coffee shop, make a present and then write clues for him to find it... there is lots you can do :)

Ultimately, the best things you can do will come from the heart <3333

Good luck!
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Question Asker Wow:O You're creative! thank you:D - A month ago
Answerer Haha - thank you! And you are very welcome XD
- A month ago

samantha12
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samantha12      When: A month ago
Well, I mean this in a nice way, you might wanna consider fitting a job into your schedule. That way you make money and you get to do things for him. When he comes over to your house, play board games, or sports outside! That way you two have fun and its free. Listen to different songs, if he's interested in music. Or make him a home cooked meal. Men love food, especially when it comes from the heart. That way he's saving money on taking you out for dinner. To lighten it up maybe both of yall can cook. You know have a little fun with the condiments. Just do something that yall both like to do :)
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Question Asker Thanks for responding ;) But I don't have time to get a job, I had one till a couple of months ago but I had to quit. - A month ago

honeybee23
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honeybee23      When: A month ago
I'm sure there's lots of cute, fun things you can do that don't cost a lot of money :). Like having a picnic, or cooking dinner at home instead of going to a fancy restaurant. You could also try going to nearby neighborhoods you don't know too well and exploring the shops they have there, just for fun. Renting scary movies is fun, too!
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