why will my ex boyfriend not leave me alone, why does have to keep being on this site that we are both on and send me things and talk about the memories that we shared and he has a new girlfriend, he just won't stop, I don't understand, I want to move on and get past all of this and not have to think about him anymore, I'm seeing someone else also too, it just looks like to me that he's not over me, or he's sick and twisted, what do you think? help!
Is'nt it ove use he still loves you tell him you have moved on you have some one else and he has to move on too ok love.GOOD LUCK TO YOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
He is having trouble letting go of the relationship. A lot of times, no matter what the reasons were for the breakup, afterwards the people really miss the better memories and experiences and just can't let them go. Even if he has got a new girlfriend, he still misses what he had with you. Perhaps his new relationship isn't going so well and he is reminiscing on how great your relationship was in the past, because he is secretely miserable now. No matter what his reasons are for doing it, you need to make it clear to him that his actions are bothering you and make you not want to talk to him. Be clear that you want to move on and he is not helping you. If he doesn't change his ways, then find a way to block him and kick him out of your life.
Sounds a lot like me...the ex that is...my ex has moved on from our 9 year relationship and I haven't yet...I know it may drive you crazy but the man loves you apparently...cut him some slack and let him deal with this in his way (provided it doesn't cross any real boundaries and get crazy out of hand)...
Let me explain my point of view and maybe you will understand his...I have sent my ex all of our pictures via e-mail from the last 9 years...my reasoning for that was that hopefully he would remember the good times and want to come home...talking to him about our past and sending him the pictures and everything else that I have done was not in any way, shape, or form meant to be mean, hurtful, or crazy, it was simply a way to try to remind him of what once was in hopes of having what could be...does that make sense?...lol
Anyway, he is obviously hurting whether he says he has a girlfriend or not and he is trying like hell to get you to see how much he loves you and by bringing up the past he is trying to remind you of the good times you had together all the while hoping you will want more with HIM and come back...
I wish I had someone in my corner when it comes to my ex to tell him why I am and why I have acted this way...so no offense but for your ex I must say...MAYBE HE DESERVES A CHANCE, MAYBE JUST MAYBE IF YOU GAVE HIM THAT CHANCE YOU WOULD SEE THAT YOU LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS HE DOES YOU...
good luck whatever you do with your life...just be easy on him, heartache is a bitch by itself so there is no need to be one to him too...
To Anonymous User, well things have changed alot, and we are back together, and realize that I love him very much, and always have, and we really want it to work between us, and you guys are right about the the other girl, he really didn't want to be with her, all he thought about was me. he has always loved me in spite of all the crap that we have been thru, and the same for me, so we will see how everything goes, I really think things will be different this time around. - A month ago
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