OK, so I met this guy at a college football game and we've been hanging out and getting to know each other and all that good stuff.
Then he would always ask me to go to parties with him and so I would go and we would have a good time and things would happen between me and him like we would end up making out or do a lot of foreplay and all that (but no sex) and I understand that it may have been the alcohol. But when this starts happening its usually just barely after we start drinking so we aren't even really that drunk.
When we hang out normally these make out sessions would always happen and he would always want me to stay the night with him but I never end up doing and he would always walk me to my car and give me a goodnight kiss before I left.
We would always talk to each other and text a lot but sometimes he would not talk to me for a day or 2 and then all of a sudden text me again after I texted him first and his friend says he really likes me but he doesn't want a relationship right now because he got out of a bad one about a month or two ago...
but my real problem is is that I will be moving in 5 months.. and I want a relationship but I don't want one. I don't want one because I'm moving. but I do want one because I really like this guy and it seems like the more we hang out and talk the more he is trying to get closer to me and wants to be in a relationship.
so what should I do? :- /
Update: yes I am moving pretty far... and I don't do the long distance relationships because I kno they do not work at all...
A month ago
Update: and he does know I am moving
A month ago
Update: no were not together we still just hang out and party and all that fun stuff...
3 days ago
Is that guy aware that you are moving in ? How far are you moving away from him ? Like, if it is close enough, then you can continue your relationship with him as both of you love each other. However, If he is aware that you will be moving far away & is still making a foreplay, he is trying to seduce you because he wants to have sex with you. That is why he is trying to get closer to you. But I reckon that if you are moving far away, then the long distance relationship could be difficult. :-(
Don't do the sexual stuff with him. If you are comfortable with him, continue your relationship with him till the end of 5th month. But limit it only to hugging. Because after sometime you may not want to be with him. And you will have to move on. - A month ago
Seems like things are going good, but you are moving in 5 months.
IMO, long distance relationships are not really relationships... It's more of a way of delaying the whole "breakup and get over it" phase which really sucks.
I guess it really depends on if you'd be able to spend quality time together after you move, but who knows, maybe it won't even last up until that point!
With that being said, I'd take it a day at a time, and really ask yourself, are you prepared for a LFR and would he be down for one?
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