What do guys think about?

I think it's cool. I'm glad that she isn't some stupid ho who gives her body to everyone like it's some sort of object. I think she is making a good choice by waiting and I will accept her decision and stay with her :)

I think that girls who want to wait until marriage for sex are a lot smarter than girls who've been brainwashed into believing that sex by the third date is the way to keep a man in your life...

I guy with great morals will LOVE you for your decision. Someone who does not love you will not respect your wishes and will try and pressure you into sex early.
Don't give in.

good for them, but they will need to make up for it due to as men we have 10x more erges and if you want us to make that sacrifice we have to see a silver lining for us at the end

i think that those girls should be the most respected people in the world and deserve every ounce of respect a human can give because no one deserves more respect than someone who respects themselves so I give a thumbs up to any girl who decides to make this decision and curse any guy dumb enough to try and change their opinion and I would stick with any girl that decides this and only hope that I'm smart enough to stay with her untill she's ready to get married

I really depends on the situation. I think girls should wait until they are truly ready to have sex, that said, there is nothing special about your wedding night that suddenly makes you 'ready'.

Beautiful. I would never be with a girl who isn't. It shows self control, some morals, high standards, and it is really a pretty good filter for filtering out douches. That's classy. If someone you like can't wait till marriage, I wouldn't consider them marriage material. A majority of divorces are between people who have had sex before marriage. And I can tell you based on my experience, from all of my parents friends, all of them were virgins until marriage, only 3 of their friends got divorced, as opposed to where I work in 2 retail stores where there aren't any virgins and I know about 30 divorced or once divorced people, and all kinds of people with problems.

I don't think any good guy who has something going for him, would EVER look down upon something like that. My opinion.

That possibly they are hiding something -- so need you to make a lifelong commitment before you find out that they don't even like to have sex; rather, they see it as a reward for you when you do as told. (Like marry them). Or, they are just poor naive little things that are just trying to follow the wishes of their mommy or daddy -- Little girls that need a little more time.

it takes a vigilant person...a very special person

I would like to find one and marry her.

Honestly, I respect it a lot. Plus, you'll know when a guy really loves you if he's willing to wait for you as well.

I think it is an excellent idea; however, I have met more than a handful of guys/girls that try that, mess up and go completely sexually bonkers and sleep around. In one hand it is nice to have sexual relations with someone who isn't random and you know is clean because you get the experience and it adds an extra spice to the night; also, you don't end up being bad for when you do get married. In the other hand some people cannot handle having sex before marriage because it may not end up in marriage and can be devastating. I think it's cool if they wish to wait but as long as you are careful and not drunk it can be a decent idea.

i think .. gals who think in this direction are doing good...its better to be one man girl than to be a prostitute...

Sorry this isn't the answer the girls want, but...
a girl who wants to wait til marriage is bound to be uptight about other things. When two people genuinely care about each other, THAT makes the sex special...and not a piece of paper or a ring on your finger. Withholding sex is a valid dealbreaker for guys, and if you don't understand why (or think it's offensive) then you're setting yourself up for a surprise. There's nothing wrong with a guy who WILL wait for marriage, but intent is what makes an action special...sex shouldn't be treated like emotional politics. It's just sex.

When you meet Mr. Right and he buys you a ring and you say yes, then you have no further reason to wait after that. Wait until you are engaged. I see no reason to wait after you are engaged.

The honest majority of guys, will mind- but if the relationship is meaningful, it is not a "deal breaker". On the contrary- if the girl has a huge ego, is a major tease, or is "playful" with other males- these are all examples of what would make me go crazy.

This situation really depends on context. Either way, the guy SHOULD be supportive- but in reality we rarely are. If the guy has a huge need for being satisfied sexually then the desire to wait is, all the more, a pet-peeve.

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well I will think that she is being honest...if she clears things out at the beginning of the relationship...den I don't mind...
i will love her as much as I will do otherwise...in fact more...bcoz I will develop respect for her clarity and her truthfulness...honestly I would such a gal in my life who thought are pure...
of course it her decision and no one has the right to force her...
such face problems if they fall in a relationship with a guy who is dominating and keeps on forcing her for it...
she should find a guy who can understand her feelings...and not a sex freak who can't think of anything else...

I think that if you want to wait until marriage then the guy should wait for you, if he really appreciates you. otherwise he is a selfish pr*ck. I personally was not going to have sex with anyone until I got married but I was with a girl who I loved and we did it. Later on in the relationship we broke up and I haven't had any since because of my own personal morals.

I think it's silly to wait until marriage. It's an obsolete moral that has been forced upon women since time immemorial to maximize their potential for finding a husband. It has no real place anymore. Quint and cute, yes. But I wouldn't be with a virgin who wanted to wait until marriage. And it's not because I'm a dog or can't control my own libido and hormones. I would simply have a fundamental conflict with someone who believed waiting to be an act of morality.

Sex is an instinct. Marriage is a social institution. So what can be logically thought of a person who insists upon the joining institution before yielding to the instinct?

i think that's very great I am waiting till marriage my self

I think its beautiful, in fact I'm holding out right now for someone who is sexually pure. I recently became a 'born-again Christian' and so my personal values have changed from promiscuity to sexual purity before marriage. But a few years back my views on virgins were very different...

virginity it self does not play the major role in handling the relationship elegantly, however the girl deserves 110% appreciation at least from that point of view. In addition to it she should be soft spoken, should have patience, no ego issues and very importantly should be caring to her pal).

Personally, I think those girls are worth going after or being in a relationship with them.

I'm not being a prude or a religious conservative, but I think those girls that sleep around have no discipline and self-respect towards themselves.

So if you're planning on going down the abstinence road, congrats and keep it up!

It makes them go crazy. I'm 19 and still 100% a virgin and I am respected by men and Id rather be respected then known as just "the girl who gave so and so his jerk off for the week." take NO shame in being a virgin till marriage.

im one of these girls who is waiting for marriage and I'm proud of it. I really respect people who do this and if you're in a relationship with someone who is willing to wait for you then you knnow you're into a good thing becuase you know that they don't just want you as someone to have a bit of fun with.

Im a virgin and I am proud of it. if that's what you are planning to do keep it up, don't listen to the people who try to break you because I have heard from many people that they wish they would have waited.

It drives them crazy & wants you more! :)
I kno.. because I am still a virgin & I'm 20 ;)

I personaly don't think you should wait for marriage to have sex... you need to get some experience... every man is different... some SUCK in bed and some are just AMAZING! now imagine you marry a guy who sucks in bed... your stuck with him... and on top of that you'll think to ursel wow I havnt been missing much huh.. when in fact YES YOU HAVE!

But than again ofcourse if this is your choice.. than men should respect that!

i think that's great too! I recently just lost my virginity.. to a complete asshole! and I TOTALLY regret it! doesn't mean I'm going to be a complete slut and sleep around now lol no I have dignity and self-respect. my decision at the time was clouded and the boy I lost it too, I realised too late that he only wanted sex.. and no I was not drunk, I was perfectly sober. I wanted to try it and see what it was like.. and now I wish I could take it back, but I cant. the past is the past. and all I learned from that was, if I have a daughter, I will not let her make the same mistake..