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Still in love with an ex and in need of help

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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Hi ladies and gentlemen, thanks for taking the time to read this.

I was dumped by my first ex a couple of years ago, and Time has not dulled the pain, nor my memories of her. I've gone out with a couple of other great girls, but somehow I keep comparing them to
her, keeps happening over and over again.

She has THE smile and eyes that I find to be the most gorgeous I've seen in my life.

I just found out through my lecture schedule that my ex will be somewhere close by, one lecture hall away.

My campus is kinda small, so without a doubt I'll be bumping into her again.

What I want to ask is, kind readers, is do I have a chance at going after her again? I was pretty immature that time, being my first relationship of course, and I can confidently say I've matured mentally.

If so, how do I go about doing it?

Thanks a real bunch.


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getyourexback      When: 15 days ago
Hi,

Why not trying "no contact phase" -- basically, it is incredibly damaging to any relationship you might have in the future if you're constantly calling, texting, or chatting online with your ex-girlfriend. The chances are very good that she is simply getting frustrated with you and those ill feelings are just stacking on top of one another. Doing this can ruin your hopes for good!

After you have waited long enough (usually a month or more), it is time to reconnect. One good way to do this is to get together on a casual date just to see one another again. You can present this as a way to just chat about things that have gone on in your life. Hopefully, enough time has passed that your ex-girlfriend is willing to do this.

You should have also followed the advice of bettering yourself in between the time you were dating and made contact again. Your hope is that once your ex-girlfriend sees you and talks to you, she will remember the things she always loved about you. From that point on, you can slowly move back into subtle things you used to -- especially through subtle touches, and Kino.

Doing this is an art, and far too many men rush into things. It's in your best interest to educate yourself as much as possible and read everything you can get your hands on on how to get back your ex-girlfriend.

Some of the information can be overwhelming. The best thing to do is consider how it relates to your personal situation. Above all, don't let impatience get in the way. If you are impatient during this process, she might slip through your fingers forever.

Listen, there is nothing better than getting to hold her in your arms once again. Planning a simple get-together can help get those feelings going. Subtle touches and good conversation can give you the feeling that you're able to start over with one another once again. This is just what you need!

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bklyn77
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bklyn77      When: A month ago
I feel there is nothing wrong with giving things a second try but I think you first need to mentally prepare what you will do if she doesn't want to give you a second chance. I think that you need to start slow and see what kind of vibe you get from her. Since you said you were immature in the past you need to show her how much you have changed. Try to see if you can "accidentially" bump into her at school and start from there. Be friendly and see how she reacts to you.
If the spark is still there then great. If for some reason she doesn't want to get into another relationship with you- you need to close that chapter in your life and start a new with. I know you said that you have gone out with other great girls but if you are comparing them to your ex you are not giving them a fair chance.
I know my answer is mixed but you need to see both sides of your actions.
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