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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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What do you guys really mean when you say you want to take a break (from a serious relationship)?

My boyfriend and I planned to get married one day... and he recently told me "im fed up of you, I want to take a break!"


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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 4 months ago
If he says "im fed up of you, I want to take a break!" he probably meant "im fed up of you, I want to take a break!"

Take him at his word, take the break. Otherwise, he might force a break, and you don't want that.
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Question Asker Ya I see what you mean.. I guess I just don't really understand how a break can help? the way I deal with problems is TALKING about it... - 4 months ago

l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 4 months ago
Did he say or do anything that would cause you not to take him at his word?
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Question Asker I'm not sure I understand you question? - 4 months ago
 

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clovergirl94      When: 4 months ago
I'm not a guy but I've done this before. With my ex-boyfriend, I told him we needed a break, because I just really wanted to be single, and I wasn't happy anymore, and we didn't end up getting back together after the 'break.' This was a wimps way of getting out of a relationship, I admit it.
In your situation, you need to let the break be, but don't let it be too long, most guys will come to their senses but if he's saying he's fed up with you, you need to let him calm down. The break is for the guy and girl to see how it is without the other. But if he ends up saying he doesn't want to end the break, then you shouldn't push it, because you don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you ;)
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Question Asker Thank you for your advice...But when he told me he wunts break he also said he doesn't want to break up he just wants a break from me.. I just don't understand why he needs it.. it REALLY hurt my feelings when he said that... - 4 months ago
Answerer Try not to read too much into it. After the break that's your time to talk to him about it, until then, don't stress about it, there's nothing you can change ;) - 4 months ago
 
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