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Is this the right kind a boyfriend?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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I have a boyfriend he is the best ever he's all better then my ex's boyfriends. Anyways he doesn't want to have sex until I'm ready which is always a good thing right? Plus when we go out he always wants to buy me stuff. He wants to always pay for every thing. And he said he will always love me no matter and that he loves me with all his heart. We never had a fights which is good lol. He said he would never get mad at me which I don't understand what is he trying to say there? Can anyone help?

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natejohnson (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Just because he's better than your failed relationships doesn't mean he's good. It just means that for now he's better than failure.

Just because he buys you stuff doesn't mean that you owe him anything in return.

If he loves you, he'll wait for you and respect you and honor you by being mature enough to lead you and provide for you.

The bit about never getting mad at you is a bunch of BS. I've never met a guy who didn't get mad at someone, especially in marriages or relationships. That sounds like he's just trying to manipulate you some.

The right kind of boyfriend is someone you'd want to marry eventually and go through the good stuff as well as the bad stuff with (parenting struggles, financial decisions, miscarriages, etc. ). Make sure he's a quality guy with character and integrity before you give yourself away physically or emotionally.
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cuteME (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
Well that's a good boyfriend so keep holding on to him cause those types of boys are really hard to find now a days. Well by him telling you he'll never get mad at you it just means that no matter what you do he'll never get mad at you because that's how much we probably loves you.
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Scarlettx (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I think you should count your lucky stars that you have such a wonderful boyfriend but you do sound a bit dubious about it all & because I didn't have such "fantastic" ex-boyfriends either, I'd be dubious too.

The great thing is he is waiting until you are ready to have sex & that's really good. No one should ever pressure you into having sex so he gets brownie points for that ;)

I think the reason you're doubting the situation is because you've never been treated so well & it's foreign to you. Just go with the flow. It doesn't get much better than what you have.

Ok so on to the bad side, if he doesn't get mad at times then that might leave you a bit frustrated. Sometimes you do need to fight in a relationship (but never physically) because contrary to popular belief it actually makes you both stronger for it. & also it seems he has the potential to be clingy. Have you noticed this at all?

But the bigger picture is telling me that this guy really likes you so don't worry about things so much. You're only young so enjoy it! Relax & have fun because if things go pear shaped then you'll be kicking yourself over worrying & doubting. Honestly this guy seems like a keeper.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Your boyfriend like REALLY loves you!
he just wants to show you that he cares. You have a really good relationship, and everything is fine. He loves you, and he's perfect so just stay together. When he says he will never get mad at you, he's just saying if you make a mistake he won't be mad. But don't believe that because if you went out and cheated on him I'm sure he would care! He really loves you, just don't worry, and have fun with him. He respects you, and everything is fine.
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tontow (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Well the good thing is that he's already whipped :) But he just sounds too whipped. When he says he'll never get at you that's not a good thing because he's putting you on a pedestal. You're both gonna make mistakes and it's working them out that makes you two stronger as a couple. Tell him he needs to understand you're not perfect and neither is he but that's why it's a good thing you two are together.
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