Me and my boyfriend have been together going on 6yrs, but lately because of his family trying to sabotage us(because they have and will never accept me being with him and he his a mamas boy) he has been growing a bit distant from me. He says he still loves me and says that he doesn't want anybody else but me and that he wants us to be together forever. At times its like I am always the one to say I love you first he never says to me on his own. He hardly initiates affection towards me I'm always the one to initiate it. And when we get into an argument he makes me feel like we are over because of the way he is acting towards me. So then I say I'm leaving and he says I never said I want to break up with you and he tells me that isn't what he wants to happen he says if we were over I would have all of your stuff packed and out on the porch. He goes your always the one to say your leaving and he says it is like I'm calling wolf because I never go through with it and he also says that he never say anything like that and then I say well I feel like that is what you want to happen but you are afraid or just don't want to admit. Considering I am his longest relationship ever and how much we have been through and even one time we were on a small break and I figured I better just let him go and move out of state when I told him that I was moving on and out of state he came rushing back to me begging me to stay with him and I did. I know he truly loves me because there were just so many times he could have ended but he never did and with all of his past exes he ended it with them w/out flinching or even a second though. My heart is in such turmoil about all of this. I love him so much and I can't bear the idea of losing him. What can I do to make things better and to make him happy and back to how things used to be? I understand he is under stress but all ever try to do is calm him down and try to cheer him up. I'm even trying to better myself to get a better career so he doesn't have to feel like he has do it all alone. Please help me if you can. I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you
Hi, How independent is the guy from his parents? Cause when you say mama's boy then even though he loves you. He just wouldn't have in him to defy them. Also is her mama's non-acceptance to you the only stress in his life, if not try getting out why is he so troubled.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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