Ok so I just started going out with this girl who I've known for a few years. We were kinda friends, like we would talk on the phone a lot but didn't hang out all the time. Like we had sex and were attracted to each other but nothing ever came out of it. Then we decided to try a relationship and I asked her out, but right from the beginning she didn't seem to want to put any effort into the relationship. I'm a caring guy and need attention, but I wasn't even asking for much. She goes to school like an hour away and I only see her once a week so I understood it would be hard, but she doesn't even want to talk to me on the phone anymore and I seem to always be the last thing on her mind. She's pretty mean and gets frustrated with me when I tell her how I feel. I don't know what to do or how to get her to love me back. Should I move on or try and work it out? What is she getting at?
Awww welcome 2 the complications that arise when you go from being friends 2 coupledom. From the looks of what you wrote you are 100% invested in this girl ,but you have to know that whatever you get in the beginning is what you'll be left with in the end. You said your a caring guy and you need attention, but she gets frustrated when you tell her how you feel is it possible that she liked the idea of being in a relationship with you when it was just simply an idea? You have a lot to think about is she worth it? Is loving someone who almost doesn't know you exist worth ur sanity? I'm not sure but I think you know.
Chances are, if she's being this rejective about your relationship, then maybe you SHOULD move on. She obviously doesn't care enough to even talk to you on the phone. She doesn't even care about your feelings. I would suggest to talk to her about it first then maybe if she feels like you guys should move on then maybe that's what's best for both of you two.
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