How does a girl begin to like a boy?

Every women is different. You can ask 20 girls and you are going to get 20 answers. But that's true for guys too. There are guys who want sort of a mommy. Someone to nurture them and baby them and they are going to be attracted to warm, caring women. And there are women who want a daddy figure. So they are going to be attracted to guys who are financially secure. But then there are men who hate the thought of being mothered so they look for a strong, independent women. And there are strong, independent when who hate the thought of man taking care of them so they look for guys who are going to be a little more passive in the relationship.

But what happens with men is that you guys are willing to have a casual relationship for the point of sex. Most women aren't. So you may love a sweet girl that gives you cute nicknames but you might put up with the girl who can't spell Mississippi cause you want sex. She isn't your ideal but you take her. Women usually wait for "the one". But to every woman, the one is different. Humor works on some women, to others is seems like you are a clown. Confidence works on some women, to others you are being arrogant. A woman is usually waiting for her knight in shining armour to come along but only see knows what he looks like.

What that means is you are some girls type on some level. She may not even know that she has a type but there is something in her that is attracted to you. I don't have to give you a list of things cause you already have what she wants.

The problem is some types have a hard time getting together. One of my closest friends is a terribly strong, independent woman so her type is usually really calm, kickback, cool guys. Well she never gets asked out. She thinks its cause no one wants her. But I have seen at least 5 guys come into her life, get close and then leave. Cause their personalities need a lot of encouragement to ask a girl out and she isn't good at giving it. Did you ever think that maybe the type of girl that likes you isn't the girl that is going to slam you up against the wall and start making out with you but the kind of girl who freaks out and hides when she sees you?

Now, I may just be saying this cause I can't say that every guy I have ever falling for was cause he was smart or tall or funny or whatever. It was just that there was something different about them then the other guys. One may have been college educated, another wasn't. One may have been tall, another wasn't.

I know guys like to think they can do things to make a woman like them more but think of it this way, you trying to change yourself to get a girl to like you is like her finding out you like red hair and dying her hair red. If you already liked that girl, does it matter that her hair is now red?

when a girl starts to hang out with a boy more often the girl starts to like a boy some girls like boys that are cute and a good kisser I like boys who have a good personailty

For me it is humour/ looks, then followed by individuality, then trust, then jokey sarcasm, then back to humour, then hugs :) I knew a guy in my Uni accomodation for a year before I realised I liked him. He had a girlfriend suddenly and it hit me, I was really jealous! It just takes time but for me it is always humour tied with looks.

well in my case when I start to like a boy
my heart gets all fluttery when he's around
i cling on to everything he says
and think his smile is the most beautiful in the world
and keep this forever happy blush when we're talking.

i think its different for everybody but I think everyone
gets those heart flutters :)

Well, it is difficult because not all the girls have the same way of thinking.

For me, I would like a guy who I can see as a real man: responsible, social, secure of himself, positive, bringing happiness to everybody, gentle, kind, unselfish and that he wants to bring happiness to everybody. A guy whom I can feel that he can give me security and emotional help, someone whom it will be difficult to hide the truth.

It's not necessary if we don't share the same hobbies, but at least he can be open minded with mine as the same as I could.

I don't like guys who aren't themselves, who always agree with me and want to do all "what I want" (I know from that point that they are not authentic), also the ones who show insecurity, selfish, possessive and who wants to be with me the 24/7.

Well attraction can begin the like of the opposite sex, but you can begin to like someone because you were friends for a long time and you just wanna take that next step. I think it has to do with personality and someone you think that has a lot of similar qualities to you or someone you admire.

i can't entirely say its looks, but they do count to an extent! because in my situation, when I started college I met these 2 guy buds, one was a stud, gorgeous tall, muscluar hottie, his friend was kinda shorter, thin, and not over the top but cute too...and I got to know them both and I couldn't stop thinking about the short thin guy because of the way he presented himself, he was so calm and collected, funny, confident, social, he paid attention to me and noticed things about me, and the fact that he cared to notice how I am, it just made me think...wow this guy is amazing, not like all the other d-bags I've met. The tall hottie guy was all about the talk, and all he talked about was girls, parties, drinking, video games, etc...nothing special. The short one stole my heart and still has it.

I start to like a guy based on his personality. I can't stand guys who think they are the sh*t, they annoy me. I like guys who are confidant but not overly so, who are sweet and sensitive. That's what attracts me to a guy. Looks are just a bonus ^^

Well honestly most of the time it's looks. Beleive it or not but you judge a person when you first meet them in the first second of meeting them, that includes if you have any interest in this person. But to be honest this is more like a crush with lust.
As far as love is concerned it's more about atitude, of course looks can help, for example there's this guy at my school, isn't cute or handsome in anyway, but he's a real gentleman and the woman love him for it. He would probably make a really sweet boyfriend, and the girls know it.

Good luck,

Monica

First it is attraction, looks are what first draws a person to another. Then it is personality, little quirks and traits. How he treats me is a big factor, nice is good but I also like guys who can joke around and have a little fun too! If the relationship progresses things that keep me in are compassion and showing me he loves me, being open and then the more physical attraction :D

it starts with looks (even though no 1 wants to admit it)...and if ur friends it goes off of personality and friendship..but that's how it starts; looks, then personality
hope it helps! good luck!

i started liking my now boyfriend because he kept going after me, always telling me I was pretty, always flirting, was just there bugging the crap out of me lol then one day I relies I liked him and then I gave into him, now we're dating [:

I thnk they giggle a lot

hehe, 'Say from your heart'

first of all mate, it has nothing to do with her heart. Its all to do with her brain.

Dont ask the girls to talk from their heart, cause they will just tell you a bunch of romantic mumbojumbo which won't help you at all. If it was as simple as asking a girl, how to get a girl to like you, no one would be having any problems.

She begins to like you after you have demonstrated some value and starts to
become attracted to you.

A girl has certain attraction switches in her brain. If you turn on the switches she will like you.

Examples of these switches are:

-Being the leader of the group

-Having a good body (strength)

-Having other girls being intersested in you

-Being cool and confident in yourself

-Showing that you have resources to take care of her (money, nice house, car)

-Intelligence

-Showing Courage

-Being a good listener

-Setting boundries which you don't let people cross

-Being a fun and interesting person

There are many more.

Lets say there are 50 switches, you have flick 5 of these in order for her to start liking you,
15 for her to want to see you again and maybe 28 for her to want to keep dating you.


Also the more that a girl invests in you the more she will bond to you. That means the time she's invested being around you, the money she's spent of you or any emotion she has put into you.


My advice is to never confuse Love, Romance and Attraction.

They are often done together, but they are 3 seperate things.