If a guy cheats on you once and says that he changed in a year of not being with him, would you take him back?

posting anon on this one. I'll tell you a guy secret. If a woman takes me back after I cheated on her I'll always know 1)she must be stupid and that's great. 2)i'll know I got her number and Ican do whatever I want and whenever I want. 3) I am definitely going to screw other women and I'll know I have this one "in the bag" just in case I don't get laid by the girl I really like. always good to have p**** on the side...even if it isn't great pussy.

sounds harsh? sorry but its true. you came here for honesty and information. yes it can be that bad. sorry hun, not all guys may admit it but in some degree, we feel the same way.

for your own sake, do not take him back...trust is gone and he'll know your a sucker. when he says " he is a better person" he means in man talk: I know how to get away with it better now. again I tell you, I am sorry for telling you the truth but someone has to.

Find another guy.

If it were me I would not put myself in that situation. My own protection comes first. I would not let a guy back into my life that already messed up his chance. Love sometimes is not enough if you know deep down he can't change. Even when he comes begging and confessing he'll change. Maybe you could give it a try, but I honestly wouldn't. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he didn't value you before and cheated on you, why would it be different now?

It's up to you to decide if you want to give him the benefit of the doubt. Is it worth him possibly hurting you again?

There are times when a guy is truthful and he has changed, but times when he's just full of bullsh*t. I would weigh how he's acted in the past compared to now, and take things extremely slow.

It's hard for me to honestly say which way I would go because I can't honestly say that if my husband cheated on me and said he would never do it again and would change that I wouldn't forgive him. When you love someone, you want to give them a second chance. But only you can really decide if it's worth it or not.