I met this really great guy on a Wednesday night through mutual friends. We totally hit it off and had great chemistry. We talked for hours about everything and at the end of the night, we kissed. It was amazing. I'd never felt like that before. I could feel the spark as our lips touched for the first time. He kept in touch through the rest of the week, but the weekend approached and he told me that he had to go to a dinner at his ex-girlfriends house! He sent me a text later on that he was in the bathroom and that his ex wanted to get back with him but that he liked me! I thought that he was going to leave but he stayed because she was "devastated. " On Sunday, he finally text me at night that he had gotten back together with his ex because she was really depressed. Now he says he wants to be friends. I told him that it was ok, but I didn't want him to think about us anything other than friends while he had a girlfriend. He told me he wasn't sure that he wanted to have a girlfriend but that he would love to keep me in his life. I really like him and I'm going to stick around in case he breaks up with her again. I've never had a real connection such as this and I want to persue it further but is it the right thing to do? He doesn't sound too happy to be with his girlfriend. What should I do?
You should ditch the loser. Do you really want to be a plan B? Why would you wait for a guy who obviously doesn't want to give you his everything. If a girl was like that to me, I'd tell her to hit the road. I'm not a plan B. I'm not a second option. But if that's all you see yourself as, then go ahead and wait the rest of your life. Maybe he'll come around some day.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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