He cheated on his girlfriend with me

once a cheater always a cheater, how long will you last with him til he cheats and makes that other female good?

Lets get something straight, this guy cares about you for as long as it takes to get some p**** if you want that and you have no morals or self control go for it. What's to like about this guy. He's being a lying cheating bastard. So I don't see why you want him for yourself. If you do care about this guy for some odd reason I don't see how helping him corrupt himself is the basis for anything good. Honestly its women like you that are the reason a lot of men act like assholes. I mean good job women reinforce that behavior in men. Then of course bitch about what total dogs they are. A lot of guys start out nice caring and sweet and then they notice the guys in high school who get all the girls and they are lonely so they conclude that they must learn the art of being a heartless bastard, If being nice sweet and caring was what girls went for in high school a lot more men would act that way. And no I'm not religious I like sex but even more important is honesty and respecting peoples feelings, your own reputation is also something to think about. Women have so much power of influence over men. If only they used it for good

It is a no win situation. You will not ever trust him because he cheated on his GF, and he is going to cheat on you. So what you do is not really going to make a difference overall. I suspect in 3 to 4 weeks one of you will move on. Save your heart, your dignity is already compromised.

Good Luck,
James

Your going to get yourself in trouble.

You can do what you want, which you will, but just realize: actions have consequences. When the next guy you like won't date you (and believe, there will be a next guy, because this guy uses his erection do determine his actions and you'll be the next victim) because of your low character, you'll have gotten what you deserved. They say people should forgive, forget, etc., but some things can't be fixed. So I'd stop where you left it, whether you knew of the Girlfriend before or after the making out, and let him go back to her, dump her, or whatever he wants.

He may be a jerk. But how does that matter to you? You're not the victim, and you may soon be the perp. The fact that you ask "where to go" from here shows you are probably on his level. I understand some emotionless guys can pull this kind of stunt (many couldn't), but I don't know how a girl could do this to someone. Imagine the hurt his girlfriend will have. And maybe, just maybe, she'll become so angry when she finds out that she'll become a character-lacking boyfriend-stealer, too. Anger radiates outward.

Quit being a boyfriend stealer

I don't think you would like being in the same situation his girlfriend will be very soon. There is nothing wrong with flirting and liking a guy that is taken, but once you start something physical your going to end up facing consequences. And if he's willing to do this to his girlfriend, what's to say he won't do it to you?

Well... If you feel like it just go with the flow...

If you really like him though.. it's probably best to not... and tell him her or you.

Walk away from heartache. He is screwing the both of you over. He doesn't deserve either and you don't deserve him even though he treats you nice. You are ruining the relationship between them by interfering. You could have walked away. Just think if you were in her shoes... there's some girl who feels the same way as you are now over this guy. Would you like that? I don't think so. Just leave them be and find a better man without a girl. You're just going to cause drama for the two of them, including yourself.

oh dear...he's a douche! I wouldn't trust a guy who can cheat on another to get with me. I wouldn't want to have anything to do with something that nasty. period.

You just walk away. Your happiness is your responsibility. What you're looking for is a quick fix to a problem that isn't going to be solved by a guy cheating with you. Figure out what the real problem is - low self esteem, self loathing, no confidence - and go from there.
Life isn't easy, I know, but sometimes you have to get through the tough times to reach happiness. Being with a man who doesn't respect you isn't the answer - learn to make yourself feel good and you won't have this problem again.

Good luck.

would you like it if one day you knew that this girlfriend whom you took her boyfriend, would cheat with your boyfriend on you !

I don't think you actually like him, I think you like the way he makes you feel.
Being the other woman leads to heartache, no matter how good it feels at the moment. It's a false feeling of superiority that he gives you, because he's "choosing" you over his girlfriend. I guarantee you though, unless he breaks up with her soon - the fact that she's his girlfriend only shows that he is not interested in YOU, only what you can give him.
Take a step back here and look closely at his actions - he took advantage of you while you were drunk, he was unfaithful to his girlfriend - what part of all that really shows that he likes you? Looking at it from my point of view, all I see is a selfish, shallow, jerk. Nothing in his actions tells me he gives a damn about your feelings or his girlfriends feelings. It's pretty clear he only cares about one thing - himself.
If you keep this up, I predict that you will remain his 3 am booty call. Basically you'll get sloppy seconds and zero respect.
You don't deserve that. As a person who is capable of giving your heart - you deserve someone who can give you the same. Don't sell yourself so cheaply.

Good luck.

How would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on u? Not good very I'm guessing

i wouldn't keep on cheating
cause that sets a reputation for you
and if people find out that you helped cheat
that kind of lowers any thing you've got going for yourself
and will ultimatly make it harder to gain new friends or other boyfriends
at least that's how it would work with me if I knew someone that cheated on their girlfriend/boyfriend or helped someone cheat.
i don't know I think it just lowers standards.

your a whore how could you ! slut much.women like you give respectable women a bad name.YOU'S A HOE .HOE! it may be mean but I'm just KEEPING IT REAL

Way to sell yourself short there. He has a girlfriend and cheating on her with you. He's a player and probably doesn't give a crap about either one of you. Quit while you're ahead and tell him to find another sideline hoe

just go with the flow and catch no feelings that's what I did at least
and we have been talking for a year and had sex and he has a girlfriend
and I knowww I'm like the side bitch but you know what that's what I chose and I just get no feelings
just business ahha