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How do you know it's official?

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Midwestbeauty444 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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I am not "talking" to my ex boyfriend again..we have been since February 13 was our first date, but than he said he just wants to be a "bachelor" but that doesn't mean he doesn't want to date..as time went on we hung out even more and he has told his friends I'm "his girl" n other people I'm his friend! We had a talk about this and he got all frustrated and upset saying that labels complicate things and we don't know what the future holds blah..But we act like we are a couple I don't get WHY it's so damn hard for him to just say "I'm your man"! any ideas?

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vezna (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
This sounds like the type of guy I'd stay away from, he wants the best of both worlds, he wants to have you and have his SINGLE fun too. I bet it's okay for him to see other women, but if you saw another man he'd crack it. Just forget him honey, it's either that or be with him the way he wants it to be cause let me tell you, he won't be wanting a serious relationship anytime soon.
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
So this guy was your ex-boyfriend? And now you are talking again? And he won't officially call you his girl? Well I think we need to know why you broke up in the first place. Maybe he is just not interested in moving quickly into being your boyfriend again. Maybe he needs a little more time. Of course these are all maybes I am giving you, but a lot of it depends on you elaborating the situation.
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Question Asker We broke up because he said that he didn't want to make a "time commitment" to me and not fulfill what I truly deserve in a boyfriend. He has other priorities, like work etc. I was heartbroken for months I love him! He talked about our status but I'm tryin to give him more time. But am frustrated at the same time thinking when if ever is he going to make it official with me! We do almost everything a couple does and he isn't seeing anyone else. - 5 months ago
Answerer Okay, he said once before that he needs time, then you need to give him time. Don't rush this. Pushing him into something is not going to help the situation and will likely push him away from you more. - 5 months ago
 
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