I hate my best friend, what should I do?

your 13... boys don't make a big difference at your age... just wait til high school.. she's not your best friend clearly. find some other people.

Ahhhh! I know what kind of person your best friend is. She's one of those really charming, but manipulative chicks. The kind that you go home and think about how she's so mean and you list all these messed up things she's done, but when you see her the next day you forget why you don't like her.
The best solution is just to disconnect yourself from her. Don't make it obvious that you no longer like her, but also don't try to hang out with her anymore. This will make her wonder why you're not hanging out with her anymore and she'll most likely try to be nice to you. Just ignore her.

Shes not your best friend. End it.

Maybe you shouldn't be friends with someone you "hate". Do you dislike her or genuinely HATE her? I think hate is a strong word, that shouldn't be applied to people. Some people are better off, while some aren't. If you don't want to be friends with her, maybe you should meet someone new and get your friend to like her and then you can gradually quit talking to her. I wouldn't tell her that you hate her, but tell her how you feel in a civilized way to avoid conflict or hurt feelings!

good luck.

I basically just skimmed this, and didn't read the whole thing, but I think it's basically just the age that you are. Lots of girls at this age are trying to find out who they really are, and try to be someone they aren't just to be accepted by others. And don't take it personally, I think that since she is your best friend, she really cares about you and looks up to you and wants to be like you just because she admires you. She thinks you are cool. And because of that she wants to be cool too.
Just tell her straight up that it really does bother you that she is always coping you. Or, distance yourself from her for a little while. Make some new friends. But! Do not be mean to her. Just explain to her that you just want to meet new people and have a bigger crowd of friends, and let her know you aren't dropping her as your best friend. You just need a little bit of space, that's all.
I'm sure it will hurt her feelings a little bit, but if she really annoys you this much, things are going to end badly later on if you don't find a way to resolve them now.

clearly you're not her friend, you don't like her at all.. the best thing to do is just tell her to her face that you can't handle being friends anymore ... keep it simple

The best thing you can do for yourself is end it.
This "friendship" is only hurting you.

Now..the hard part..
All you can really do is flat out tell her that you don't want to be friends anymore...
Just remember..it'll probably be ugly for awhile no matter how you choose to act, but in the end you'll be grateful you cut her off.
Stay positive..keep smiling...don't let whatever she throws at you bring you down. ;)

she is doing nothing good for you, and your friendship means nothing if you don't really feel the way she does. tell her you don't want to be friends anymore and move on. you're 13, you'll get over it!

Well... You have to look at it in a complimentary point of view... she wants to BE you literally... you must have had something in the beginning to even be her best friend right? But that was what she was when she was herself? so just tell her... you have to do it the right way though... do it in an adult fashion you know don't act like a little kid over this. so just say you know you don't like her copying you. she has to act like who she is because you're who you are and your happy with it. that's basically all it boils down to... she's self concious about who she is and she thinks that by copying you she has stability. You just have to get on with it. Just tell her. and she'll either act like a little kid over it or she'll admit she made a mistake and you'll both move on. The best thing to do is to act straight away no point in prolonging it. Once its all out in the open you'll feel a hell of a lot better.
Hope this a helped a little bit at least!
Much Love
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I'm going through something simliar with one of my friends. I just don't think of her as a very good friend to me. She is to other people, she is just kinda fake with me. And its been getting me more and more angry the more I think about it. But I'm just gonna let our friendship fade. Because I don't want a big confrontation and then it be weird when I see her at parties and stuff. But the guy thing, you need to speak up about. If you don't tell her there is a problem first, then its your fault for never letting her know how it makes you feel. But really, decide if she is even worth it, then do what right by you.