Boyfriend sexting?

Dump him, he's going to cheat eventually... I'm sorry...

maybe you should show him that he should be happy he even see's you. Men are all the same it seems and I even been mislead at times but we are visual creatures and if what we see and tough is what we like we will proudly wag our tails to see it again. Just don't mis use it because it gets tire some easy. I don't blame you for being bad because things like that leave a bad after taste.

Bye bye boyfriend. I threw my ex gf's phone into traffic when I saw a sext message.

So dump this guy. That 'is' cheating. Sending messages to another girl wishing they were in your bed is cheating, sorry. He has mentally cheated on you. If he hasn't physically cheated on you yet I'd say the odds are good that he will. Drop this guy and find someone who doesn't "sext" random chicks. Drunk is so not an excuse for that. And yes, you should be more than bothered... you should be p*ssed.

you're not crazy to be bothered by that, but you should dump him. he doesn't care about you enough to treat you right and someone else will.

Consider that to be cheating. Of course he is gonna downplay what he wrote but you know what you saw. Would YOU send freaky texts to a guy if you didn't mean it and you didn't even know him when you were drunk? Probably not. It sounds like bullsh*t

Please he has a girls number that he doesn't even know and he is sexting her. I said lose him.

What he did was not cool, even if he was drunk. The appropriate response on his part would have been to apologize to you for doing it, not make up a bunch of excuses to try and pretend this was not a big deal. This is a big deal and that is why you still feel badly, because his response does not make sense and does not match what he did. It also shows he is not connecting to you as a person and recognizing how you feel. I wonder how great he would feel if you had been doing the same thing to another guy?

Separate from that, yes, guys do think about sex with other women beyond their wives and girlfriends. But thinking about it or fantasizing is different from acting on it. Sexting is acting on it. Guys who are truly committed to their partner do not ask other women to send them naked pics. Not cool.

You should talk to him about it again. Stay calm, don't sound accusatory, but just say that you are still bothered by his response, that you cannot imagine him thinking it was funny if you had done something like that and that it concerns you that he doesn't respect your feelings and could easily do this again. If he gets defensive or doesn't want to talk about it, you should consider whether he is the one for you.