Why can't I get a boyfriend?

You're very attractive. You're smart and goal orientated. You have a job. You have a good personality. And respect yourself above all.

You're the type of girl guys want but might be too intimidated to approach.

Being too good can be bad sometimes. lol just kidding

But seriously maybe the guys you like are scared of you.

You seem to want a good guy.

If not you could have already been with some assholes by now.

A good chunk of good guys are intimidated by girls like you.

Don't ever lower your standards just to be with some loser. Also try to give a push to those slow good guys.

One more thing. If you're happy being the great person you are then don't change it. One lucky guy will eventually be your Boyfriend.

Depending on the type of guy that you're attracting, it could be that they are a little too shy to ask, or maybe that they are getting the impression that you're not interested. Whatever the cause, I suggest that you take the reins and next time you meet a guy that you're interested in try to make a move or push the envelope, just anything that will help make it clear that you're interested. The fear of rejection is strong, but honestly it's worth the shot. You'll regret it if you don't.

I am sorry to hear that you're having guy problems. Most guys are only interested in sex. Also maybe you could open up a little bit to some of these guys with legitimate interest in you. It's sometimes the one you'd least expect you'd want or would consider dating, that end up perfect for ya. You know that its 2009 and you can ask a guy out for drinks or an appetizer too :) Ditzy isn't really attractive though, so maybe try and alter how you react sometimes! Attraction is more than skin deep. So engage in conversations, put yourself out there! I was always good enough for my ex girlfriend until she decided to changed her mind and wanted to find someone hotter. Despite the fact I was amazing to her and have a great personality.

Hmm...i think when a guy approachs you , you might get too eager and happy,(cuz you sed ur nice) that comes off as desperate(although I'm not sure if you do,im just assuming ) But to be honest don't worry the perfect guy will come along and you won't have to change anything and I'm pretty sure interesting and very beautiful.No one can be boring, we each have something special about us. Also, no one can be ugly,because god doesn't create junk.But I'm sure you get my point.Anyways,just be patient and try to talk to the guys you normally don't talk to. Maybe you just chill with the wrong fellas! god bless yuuu hunnieee xoxoxoxo

This sounds a lot like myself...
I was always the fun and flirtatious girl -- and ended up with a bunch of guy friends -- which I don't mind -- I probably put them there.
I know some guys think I'm cute and I'm confident and fun. So why have I been single most of my life? I've thought about this for a loooong time.
I've been to the bars//clubs (My Bro is a promoter) and I met tons of guys...but none of which I wanted to pursue. My friend has seen me with plenty of opportunities to date guys, but I was the one who never wanted to go. I didn't like them, or maybe the way they dressed wasn't for me. Or they were fat or something...anything.
She claims I was afraid to commit -- but that wasn't it to me.
I was afraid of getting hurt. (seeing my friends get hurt for years freaked me out -- I didn't want to feel that pain -- ever.) For years I liked being in control of my feelings.
Being vulnerable wasn't a part of me. But I realized I had to change that.
The recent guy I thought was going to be another weekend fling has now turned into a 6 month relationship...and more months to come.
If you have any questions, please don't hesitate! :)
And I hope that helps. Basically I was afraid...