That is what I have noticed, from my experience and what I have observed, that when a girl has a boyfriend, it usually means that all of her girl friends, or female friends are taken too, or at least most of them, a couple of my friends who are guys agree with me too, and some random girls that I have talked too before, they told me the same thing, like they notice that pattern too. Okay, so why is it almost all the time like this? That when a girl has a boyfriend, or dating someone, all or most of her friends have a boyfriend too or dating someone, yet the same thing is not as common in guys. Like when a guy has a girlfriend, usually he is the only one in his group of guy friends, or male friends, that has a girlfriend, or there are more single guys in the group than taken guys.
Update: That is why I don't like to socialize or be just "friends" with a girl who has a boyfriend already because I know I won't have a future with her, and plus if all her friends are taken, then I am just wasting my time.
24 days ago
Update: I know that it's normal for a girl who has a boyfriend, to have other guy friends, like she is just friends with them, nothing more, but I noticed that all of her guy friends have their own girlfriend already, so that is understandable.
24 days ago
Update: Because I don't think it's a good idea for a single guy to be friends with a girl who has a boyfriend because it could make her boyfriend jealous, or cause other problems, and if none of her girl friends are single, then I can't meet a potential gf.
24 days ago
Update: So how come almost all the time, girls who are taken, all of their friends are taken too, but the opposite is for guys? how come if a girl is taken, all of most of her friends are taken, but if a guy has a girlfriend, most of his friends are single?
24 days ago
Update: Seriously, why is it that girls are in relationships or have a boyfriend more often than guys do? like I also notice that girls do not stay single as long as guys do.
24 days ago
Update: Like when a guy and a girl break up, the girl ends up meeting a new guy and gets a new boyfriend, faster and sooner than her ex-boyfriend meets and gets a new girlfriend.
24 days ago
Update: It's so frustrating, it almost makes me feel like giving up on taking the initiative and doing the pursuing, approaching girls, because I always seem to desire or want girls that are taken already.
24 days ago
Update: In my opinion, it's easier for a girl to meet a guy and get a boyfriend than it is for a guy to meet a girl and get a girlfriend, like it's easier for a girl to enter a relationship than it is for a guy.
24 days ago
Update: So why is this pattern so common for girls but not for guys?
24 days ago
Update: So how come when a girl has a boyfriend, usually all or most of her friends are taken too, but not so much for guys?
24 days ago
Update: Is this question unpopular or what? because it has not gotten that many views.
22 days ago
Update: Does anyone else think I have a valid observation? or do you think I could be just referring to my past experiences?
17 days ago
Update: Women have it so much easier.
13 days ago
Update: and I am being honest, from my own experience, whenever I meet a girl that has a boyfriend, she tells me that all or most of her friends have a boyfriend already too, it's very frustrating.
7 days ago
Well I'm glad you realize that women have it easier. - 12 days ago
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Yes. NOW GET OVER IT AND BE A MAN. - 11 days ago
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Why should I? even if I man up and be a man, whatever, I will still risk rejection or make mistakes. - 11 days ago
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Do you think you're the first person to make a mistake or be rejected? - 11 days ago
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It's how you choose to deal with rejection and your mistakes that defines you, and makes you a man. - 11 days ago
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Well real men are not supposed to make mistakes, real men are supposed to be perfect. - 11 days ago
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No. Real men know that it's not only ok to make mistakes, it's a good thing that needs to happen if you're ever going to grow. You need to love yourself unconditionally, no matter how badly you fail, so that you can give yourself permission to succeed. - 11 days ago
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And women can be depressed all they want and whine and complain about how they can't get a boyfriend, and they can still get one, women don't need confidence, us men need it. - 11 days ago
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Those women get used and tossed aside, if that's what you're after. Honestly, why would you turn down chances to better yourself? - 11 days ago
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Not always, they can still get a boyfriend and be with him for more than a year, but the same is not usually applied for guys. - 11 days ago
So why don't you go for one of these whiny, complaining depressed girls? - 11 days ago
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Because I never get to meet them, I have no place but to meet girls except for school and bars, my friends can't introduce me to any girls because it just doesn't work that way. - 11 days ago
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Would some kind of club work? Do you have any female friends with friends? - 11 days ago
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Nope, I have no female friends at all - 11 days ago
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What's stopping you from making them? - 11 days ago
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I don't know how to make friends with the opposite sex, only my own sex, I've tried even just being friends with girls before, but they rejected me. - 11 days ago
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Rejected you how? What type of girls were they? - 11 days ago
when a girl has a boyfriend she usually ditches her friends to be with him. so her friends get lonely and start to look for a man to replace thier friend who has left them. as so on.
Yeah, but how come it does not usually apply for guys? like when a guy has a girlfriend, his guy friends are usually single. - 24 days ago
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Cause guys don't have bffs like girls do. most guys are grimey and don't even really care about thier friends like girls do. we look out for each other. - 23 days ago
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Seriously, girls have it so much easier than guys do, at least in my opinion. - 21 days ago
Because girls can relate to similar experiences that happen when you have a boyfriend, meaning they have something new to talk about with new people, meaning they're more likely to become friends. Plus, women are just more social by nature, so they're more likely to have a bigger circle of friends and find a partner, which would mean that her girl-friends would, too.
Or if one girl's really outgoing and flirty, she'll probably have some friends that are, too. Then they'd all have similar personality traits that are conducive to finding a partner.
So you do agree with me on the part that when a girl has a boyfriend, it usually means all of her female friends have a boyfriend too? and yet the same thing does not apply to guys, well at least not as much. Like lets say a random girl has a boyfriend, and a random guy has a girlfriend, the random girl with a boyfriend, all or most of her female friends are more likely to have a boyfriend than the random guy with a girlfriend, that all or most of his guy friends are taken? - 24 days ago
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I don't agree with that in every case; I'm the only one in my circle of friends with a boyfriend. I've never seen that to be the rule with other girls, either. But it makes a lot of sense that it could play out that way. - 22 days ago
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When a guy and a girl are single, the girl always has more potential boyfriends than a guy has potential girlfriends, like a girl has more offers. - 22 days ago
To your last updates, I couldn't say that either. I was mostly single while all my other friends had boyfriends lol. I'm always the oddball out. I hardly ever dated. Just didn't feel the need to when I was in high school. - 24 days ago
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In my opinion, it's easier for a girl to meet a single guy than it is for a guy to meet a single girl. - 24 days ago
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