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Who should have more control in a relationship: a guy or the girl!

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Botosaui617 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 24 days ago
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or how do you think it should work?


Update: hmm, I thinking everyone is frontin' VERY HARD because every girl I've been with or talked to always wants the guy to make the decision. will we eat here? or there? will we see this movie or that? do you wanna go out or not? it always fell on the guy.    19 days ago

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That isn't control. It is just making up your mind. Control is different.
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Question Asker Well its clear she wants me to make the decision. I sometimes don't even ask. or if she wants to go out and I don't feel like it ill jus tell her to come through or she will see if I wanna gothrough her spot - 19 days ago
Answerer I'm indecisive too. That isn't the same as control. As long as she is OK with it and it doesn't annoy you, leave it be! - 19 days ago

 
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If a guy asked me that question, I would run very fast in the other direction.
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epiphanysluvsu      When: 24 days ago
It should be equal unless one of you doesn't mind backing down every once in awhile.
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What's wrong with an equal relationship?
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Whoknows87
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Whoknows87      When: 24 days ago
equal control
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WhatIsThisIDont
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WhatIsThisIDont      When: 24 days ago
Neither. A relationship isn't about control, its about 2 people that want to be together and trying to make it through together no matter what. It takes 2 to tango. That's not just a sexual reference.
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dreamer010999
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dreamer010999      When: 24 days ago
For me, I like it to be equal. If I have too much control I get bored. But as long as both are happy with who is having the control, then its all good.
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cgiddings      When: 24 days ago
In a successful relationship both parties should have near equal say. A proper partnership provides a balance of power based on the strengths and weaknesses of the individuals.

The problem most relationships see is that one or the other attempt to manipulate or play mind games in order to exert a greater level of control, even subconsciously, over the other partner.
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