I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We both live together and have our home. He has no kids but I have two boys 8 and 6 from a previous relationship. I am 2 years younger than him but sometimes I get really frustrated because I feel that he doesn't help me or is considerate to me. We both work although we have different schedules I work full-time in an office(that comes with a lot of responsibilities) and he works in a restaurant the night shift from 5PM to 11PM, but at home all he seems to do is sleep all day and wake up with enough time just to get ready and go to work, on his days off he feels he deserves to rest and not do anything. Did I mention that we also have two dogs. Well I feel that all the responsibilities fall on me from washing clothes, dishes, cleaning, the dogs(bathing, walking, feeding) the shopping. Although we do split the cost of the rent I also feel that I take care of most of the bills as I am the one who is always making sure to pay them on time. Will he ever change? Be responsible? Take charge? I am very tired and stressed, I love him but I feel as if I have a third child. We have talked about it but we always fall in the same pattern. What to do?
No he's not going to change. If he was going to it would've happened already. By you taking care of all of this stuff for him he's gotten into a pattern where he's come to expect you to take care of everything. As you've said, talking about it has produced no lasting changes. It's time for you to move on if you're unhappy with your current situation. Find someone to be your partner, not another dependent.
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