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Fell in love with my friend, What do I do?

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temariofthesand-san (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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I have a really good guy friend. We always find something funny in what we say and are constantly laughing. I have always been one of the guys and never let anyone know the real me or get to close but some how he broke through the wall I put up to keep others out. I did something stupid and fell in love with him but I don't want to ruin our friendship. He is the first person I ever loved and I know it is love because I never got stupid crushes and I didn't think he was cute at first until after I fell in love than I looked at him differently. He is graduating this year and I will be a junior next year. I thought of telling him on the last day but I don't know if I should or how I should do it. He also has a girlfriend and if he's happy with her I don't want to mess that up because over all I just always want him to be happy even if it makes my life a living hell.

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Kenographer (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Stay friends, let him decide. If he is happy with her, then let them be. It is hard, but that is the best thing to do. It is better to stay friends, then loosing them over a break up. Its a good thinking that you saw the inside him, not many women see that. Just the outside. I will say, tell him how you feel. Just tell him, do not act on it. If you are open, then he will know. He might say that he feels the same, but he is in love with his girlfriend. Just tell him that you accept that. Do not date him, unless he breaks up with her. That will be worse, if he is dating two people.
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bethie (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
honey, I know where you're coming from! not a fun place to be in hey =(
I'd say that if he's happy with his current girlfriend (sorry, it says 4 months ago so I don't know how current this is) then maybe you should just leave them be.as hard as it is.
and it depends on whether you want to try to get over him or to try and 'get' him.some people say the best way to get over someone is to tell them how you feel.
hope this helped & it works out.
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