well I only ask this because she's on my mind almost everyday (sorry if this gets long).
i was with her for 8 months and she was one of those girls I had fallen really hard for she had been abused before and I felt like it was my responsibility to protect her as well as love her and treat her right I never wanted to leave her or hurt her, but I ended up taking her for granted and yes, I lied to her.
Then she broke up with me which was about 5 months ago and we stopped talking going on about 2 months now. It was my choice to stop talking to her completely because I still had so many feelings for her and every time we talked it just brought them back out.
After the break up we just flirted a lot and had sex a few times especially right after the break up and even when we stopped having sex the feelings kept coming back with us just flirting and being around each other so I just said I can't talk to you anymore.
I wrote her like a whole letter about how much I did love her and and care about her and why we couldn't talk it felt better telling her how I felt but all she she said was okay just make sure you don't accidentally call me and that was it and that's how I remember her last. I was kind of sad because she didn't really let me know anything and it made me feel like she didn't really care.
But I kept my promise and refused to talk to her and its been about 2 months and still can't get her out of my mind I keep thinking of all the good times we had together and I'm wondering if she feels the same. Again sorry for this long story please understand.
yes she does still think of you. unless she's a hooker, or complete slut, every girl always remembers every man she's been with. and thinks of him at least sometimes.
I understand. I was in a similar situation, and it tore me apart. You have my sympathy.
The best advice I can give you is to say that you _will_ get over her. Might take 15 more days, or 15 more months. But you_will_ recover.
It's normal to wonder if you're on her mind. But at the end of the day, it doesn't really matter if you're on her mind. She made her decisions, and she had the right to make them.
But the fact that she was abused reminds me of a saying. "When you want to save a damsel in distress, you end up with a distressed damsel." It's normal for guys to want to take care of women. But the trouble comes in when we select women who don't have their sh!t together. Might not apply to her, but it's a good rule to remember. The fact that someone was mistreated or abused in the past doesn't excuse their current misbehavior.
Keep busy, keep moving, stay away from her. You'll recover. It's hard to believe, but a time will come and you won't feel much of anything for her -- you'll be kinda neutral.
I have the same question about my ex bro.. almost exact situation.. I wonder myself. She seems to be partying her life away, so who knows if she does. Girls do stupid things to mask or get rid of feelings for an ex (sleep around). It's gonna wear off, it's gonna get old and end with them feeling really badly about themselves and their actions/decisions. That's when they will realize what they had with us. The good guys (us) girls always will regret leaving. This is the second girl I had a LTR with, didn't love the first one, but she still wishes she had me. The last one meant the world to me, and she also will be back. I'm sure of it. Good luck.,
second the saying is true "you don't know what you got untill it's gone" I don't wanna come across as unfeeling but as you yourself said YOU took her for granted YOU lied to her some woman can't get over that she may still think of you if she didn't then she would be a very cold person. - 20 days ago
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I said nothing of the sort. Are you reading the same post that I wrote? I basically said that since she left she's been partying, sleeping with people, and will eventually realize what she had with me when that phase wears off. I never took her for granted or lied to her. She is shallow and cold.. Her new lifestyle isn't something I admire. - 20 days ago
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I think she was talking about what I posted.
and I understand that and I kind of suspected she wasn't over it I knew she never felt the same about me after I but its just she never told me how she felt about me and barely how she felt at all unless I pried it out of her she had a hard enough time saying "i love you" I wish she would have showed me something so that's why I guess I'm still stressed about her. - 20 days ago
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