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A girl kissed me, but I have a boyfriend.

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stargirl3637 (Age:Under 18)     When: 20 days ago
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I was at a Halloween party with my boyfriend, and I went off to talk to some of my girl friends there. three of them were apparently fulfilling a dare to kiss each other, and I was just standing there with another girl, and that girl proceeds to, out of no where, grab my face a try to kiss me. she only brushed my lips, since I pulled my face back in not enough time to get away from her. after that, I walked back up to where everything was going on, and back to my boyfriend. right then, he asked me, "So what girl did you kiss?" with a disappointed expression. I said I didn't kiss anyone (since I didn't) and I thought he believed me, but once we left, he asked me the same question again, more demandingly this time, and I said no one. he then tells me that another girl told him she kissed me, and he believed her, when that definitely did not happen. all I could do was try and tell him it didn't happen, but he was still skeptical.
what in the world am I supposed to do?


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paigems
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paigems      When: 20 days ago
Well, it would probably help to explain the whole story of what happened to your boyfriend, and explain that you really did nothing wrong, and that it was actually the other girl who tried to kiss you. If he still doesn't believe you then I would probably confront the girl and explain to her the problem she has created. If this girl does understand where you're coming from then I would then ask her to explain what really happened to your boyfriend.
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Question Asker Thanks. I didn't think about going to the girl about it. - 20 days ago
Answerer No problem, I'm glad I could help. And thanks for best answer :) - 20 days ago
MissConfused93 "I kissed a girl and I liked it, taste of her cherry chapstick.
I kissed a girl and I liked it, hope my boyfriend won't mind it."

Haha sorry. I just had to. =) - 18 days ago

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GIntrovert
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GIntrovert      When: 7 days ago
Tell him what you told us.
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Cartiphilus
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Cartiphilus      When: 15 days ago
If he doesn't trust you and is too immature not to be jealous of a girl trying to kiss his girlfriend perhpas it's time to re-evaluate the relationship.
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jacquesvol
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jacquesvol      When: 19 days ago
Explain it to him the way you explained it here.
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wally      When: 19 days ago
you should've told him what happen from the first time he asked you. its not too late for that just be honest.
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Jolyo91
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Jolyo91      When: 19 days ago
Inaddition to what Paigems said you should kiss him real hard like you really mean it from your heart.

and I would point out that it is true, that a girl kissed you so what it is not like you kissed her back. You have you tell him that she tried to kiss me but I pushed her away.

If he doesn't believe you then screw him, he doesn't trust you and believes what people say over what you say! what kind of a relationship is that!

Personal Opinion.
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Samanosuke47
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Samanosuke47      When: 20 days ago
Tell him the truth.. that you didn't fully kiss her or whatever... it was just a lip brushing.. and she came at you while your guard was off or whatever... :)
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Telly2Kul
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Telly2Kul      When: 3 days ago
If he doesn't trust you enough to take your word over some girl then there is a trust issue that needs to be worked out.
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Clair
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Clair      When: 3 days ago
just tell him you kissed her, I don't get this problem at all, if my ex found out I had kissed a girl it would have turned him well on. He's probably more annoyed that you lied about it to hiim.
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venus_fly_trap
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venus_fly_trap      When: 6 days ago
what are you, 12? OMG I think you're a lesbian.
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KatieKA
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KatieKA      When: 8 days ago
Don't know why he's so worried. Usually guys dig their girlfriends kissing other chicks. Don't mind it anyway. But yeah, give him all the facts on what happened. It doesn't sound like any of them were being serious anyway. This questions sorta old. Hope your boyfriend chilled out.
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bellybuttonlint Well, give credit to her boyfriend. At least he doesn't have a double standard! - 7 days ago

erikaamariee
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erikaamariee      When: 10 days ago
its simple did you like it?
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rdabby
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rdabby      When: 19 days ago
tell him the whole story, tell him that she forced herself on you and you pulled your head back.
its what happened, unless he consider this as a kiss as well... did he actually see you guys ?
mmm just be honest!
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click11
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click11      When: 19 days ago
tell him the whole story.
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the-love-guru
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the-love-guru      When: 19 days ago
He needs to trust you. Did he have a bad breakup in the past where someone cheated on him? All you can do is be honest, and let him know that you wouldn't lie to him about something like that, and the girl is just trying to start drama (quite common with younger and intoxicated people.) Hopefully he'll believe you. Next time something like that happens, make a beeline for your bf- stuff like that can cause major problems.

Best of luck.
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MissConfused93
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MissConfused93      When: 19 days ago
Hahaha oh my god that's funny! Your boyfriend should just believe you, and laugh it off. It's not like you made out with her.
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knowitall I agreed with you. x - 19 days ago

kimoments
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kimoments      When: 19 days ago
1. That's kind of weird. LOL
2. I don't really understand why he's so upset. It's not like you kissed another guy.
3. I think it's best to explain to him the situation instead of trying to brush it off and making up excuses and the like. The more you try to deny it to him, the more he'll be skeptical. It's natural for him to be suspicious when some random girl comes up to him to tell him that his girlfriend (you) kissed another girl. Although it may be difficult, it's best to be honest and come straight out with it. =)
Hope it goes well with whatever you decide to do!
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rdabby Cheating is cheating whether its a woman or a man! doesn't make any difference.
but she didn't cheat! - 19 days ago
jacquesvol She didn't cheat ineed! - 19 days ago
bellybuttonlint It doesn't matter if you kiss a guy or a girl, it's still cheating. But I'm not saying the question asker is a cheater, 'cause she's not. But at least her boyfriend doesn't have a double standard. - 7 days ago
 
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