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Should I just give up?

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anmccree (Age:18 to 24)     When: 19 days ago
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Lets see there's this guy that is my best friend. I've known him for about a year now and I'm in love with him. He has me extremely confused because about a month ago I told him I had feelings for him and he told me that even though he's felt a spark between us he can only see me as a friend. Ever since then though he's been flirting with me and spends a lot of his free time with me. One time I told him I missed him and he told me he's not the type of guy to tell a girl he misses them. Then the other weekend I received a message from him saying "miss you." Not just that he also asked me when we were going to have sex? I really love this guy and I don't wanna ask him again if we are ever going to be more than friends from fear of being turned down. He keeps making it seem like he wants me but won't go any further than that. Should I keep waiting hoping he will confess feelings for me or should I just try and get over it. (getting over it is going to be extremely hard.)

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Please help me out...any advice would be a great deal of help.


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MrNameless
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MrNameless      When: 18 days ago
I would say.. To try and move on and cut off contact. He really is giving mixed messages.

If he really likes you, he'll come back to you.
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Christian_Love
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Christian_Love      When: 19 days ago
IT seems kind of strange that your supposed "best friend" would be acting like this although we do sometimes become different people when we are on the dating scene. It would seem at first that he not sure what he wants thus the confusing decisions and actions he makes. But because he brings up the idea of sex as if you 2 were already a major couple is something entirley. Watch out for his intentions and try to talk to him some more and try and get a straight answer of how he feels about you and the whole situation and absolutley do not have sex with him.
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thatonechick      When: 19 days ago
um..be aware, he may be using your feelings for him to get easy sex. the nicest of guys do it.
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