I have been dating this guy for a few months. The first month was great, but then we went from hot to warm. These last couple weeks things have changed even more, he texts/calls less, we are spending less time together and he hasn’t stayed over when he usually did. I have become insecure about it all, and unfortunately made it known to him, asking why he didn’t stay over, wanting to know what he did during an afternoon when we were supposed to get together, inquiring about who he was going to meet for coffee at a latish hour, etc. I don’t kno what caused the relationship to go from hot to warm and am afraid to ask, for fear of it being too soon into the relationship to be talking about it. I have no reason not to trust him other than what has happened to me in the past with other relationships, that I’m scared that the same thing will happen to this one (was in a long term loveless relationship that turned out the guy only thought of it as a friends with benefits, living together and believe he may have cheated on me). I feel that I am acting like a mother figure towards him, like he feels he has to always explain what he is doing, where he is going etc. I don’t want to be that person. I’ve tried to not be the 1st to text, letting him do so. Can this relationship be saved? Should I tell him about my insecurities, that I've found myself doing stuff I did in past relationships and am trying not too? Should I just change my ways and not mention it? How should I go about trying to fix things?
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