3 years...should I cheat?

Guys go through the same thing, I think it is natural. Doesn't always have to be a sex thing also. People know once they get married there are a lot of things they must give up...usually for the best. You have to sit and think, is it worth it to have two slobs using you...twoslobs you will probably never see again...and if you saw them again you would just feel shame.

1 or two hours of pleasure could ruin your relationship with your groom to be for life. Its hard to find a good guy(or woman) but its far to easy for a female to find two random slobs to f*** her brains out if she really wanted it.

Diamonds are a girls best friend. Wouild you rather have a 50k diamond ring on your finger or free come on your face(probably laced with some kind of STD)...sorry to be so graphic but someone has to paint the picture for you(so to speak).

Sometimes sexual fantisies don't always pan out the way you want them too. you have absolute control of your fantasies...but when it is really happening, you start to see the consequences. From a guys point of view, banging your best freinds good-looking wife might score high on the fantasy list but in reality, we know it is totally not worth it if it really came true.

Just be realistic and think it through.

Seek counseling. It seems you both lack or need a reconnection. There is nothing wrong with your relationship. But your reaching a phase. And this is the point where you can make the right or wrong decision. In these times, when things are getting dull, you must reinvent new ways to learn about your partner. This means beyond sex. It is in these times that we learn to love and grow even closer with our partners. I suggest you give that a thought.

You want different cock!? You have a boyfriend who's been with you for 3 years! You sound like a needy selfish whore. Sure guys check out other girls, but I'd never act on it if I was in a relationship. Just break up with him and go on a little sex-fest... I promise when you're done, he won't take you back.

the question make's me laugh lolz..

i can't belive you are even thinking of cheating as an option.. that is the most disrespectful thing you can do to someone sorry your getting bored maybe you should break up with him and move on.. but don't cheat for f*** sake! I really can't stand people like you who are willing to cheat on a guy just because you want to explore ur selfish ways... you do not deserve someone like him if he's been faithful for those 3 years and still with your sorry ass than I really feel bad for him that you are willing to pull such sh*t and be such a bitch that you are willing to toss everything to the side just to have a 3sum you filthy whore! if your in a relationship you need to be faithful open relationships are a joke and a 3 sum is cheating on him with someone else in the room.. he really deserves better and I hope you get the rotten asshole you deserve..

You either tell him about this fantasy and he agrees and it happens or you break up.

Don't cheat on him just because you want to be a whore. If you wanted this life style you shouldn't have kept him around for 3 years wasting his time. I highly doubt if you break up with him to go have a threesome he's going to want to marry you. Get some morals and common sense BEFORE settling down.

I think you should break up with him. If you're considering cheating and not telling him just to fulfill yourself you're going to do it sooner or later. Poor guy.

Well, if you realized your sexual fantasy, you'd just have to find a new one, and so on and so on...

I'd say cheating is a weak way to end things, because if you do cheat on him, things will end.

If sexual desire means more to you than the companionship with your dude, then your marriage would never last.

I'd say ask yourself this question:

"I'm bored after 3 years, how will I feel after 10?"
"He just cheated on me with two strangers, can I still trust him when he says he's just going for a boys night out?"

Talk to him about it- your fantasies will turn him on and there might be someone he is okay with allowing that... If not, I wouldn't recommend cheating on him, but instead living your life how you want to. It sounds like you still have things to do in life before you are comitted, some of those things might not be appropriate for marrying that person - but it's your decision, would you rather live up your life, or be happy with who you are with?

Either way, if you have more questions let me know
P.s. I would much rather someone dumped me and did what they wanted to be happy, than if they cheated on me to fulfill a goal.

Best regards
ArtistBBoy

Is this a serious question? How about having a discussion about a threesome with him? You want to marry him, but would entertain the idea of cheating on him? Unreal.

Keep it to yourself until you die. And don't marry him. You don't have the mindset necessary for a lifelong committment. (Not when you are "bored" after 3 years.)

I vote no for the cheating and yes for the talking to him about the threesome. If you're to the point where you think you'll marry him I'd assume you can talk about anything, in which case you don't need to be hiding your fantasies. I'm assuming you want this to be a two guys, one girl threesome though, in which case he probably won't like the idea. Maybe if you suggest a two girl threesome and a two guy threesome he'll be more inclined to give each a try.

Cheating on him is a terrible idea, especially since you know you want to marry him one day!
You should instead discuss with him how you are feeling (omit the fact you think about cheating on him) and ask for and suggests ways to spice up your sex life. Tell him about your idea for a threesome and see if he is up for it.
Communication is key...
Keep reminding yourself of the complications that could arise if you decided to cheat. It's unfair to him; just like it would be unfair to you if he were to go behind your back and fulfill his fantasies with other women. You might feel okay about it now but who is to say in the long run guilt won't eat you up inside until the day you die all for the cost of one night of fun?