Do I ask her out or tell her how I feel?

Let me start off by saying that you are a gem among slabs of coal! Any young woman would consider herself fully blessed to be with you. Kudos to you for being an honest gentlemen. There are too few of your kind in this world.

I would say that getting to know this girl more would benefit you. Take her out on a few dates, and get comfortable with each other. Then, once you two know each other well, you can tell her how you feel, and blossom as a pair from there. I feel that it is always best to start slow, and be sure when it comes to things such as this.

I hope that helps. Good luck. And thank God for men like you. You give me so much hope. =]

First of all let me just say you are a total sweetie! Maybe she is playing hard to get, or isn't used to dealing with sweet guys like you and is nervous and thinks she will somehow mess it up. I think you should ask her out and see how it goes from there. See if she calls you after the date, etc. Good luck!

Dude, please date me. :) Haha, but seriously, you sound fantastic. I'm not sure why she wouldn't be returning your calls. But if your in-person conversations with her are going well, then I would stick with those for a while. Try and keep most of your communications to that kind, since she seems to respond best to them. And then. Just hope for the best.

How was your coffee date with her? I'm not sure if I see where you got to that in your question. If it went well and she's still receptive to you approaching her in the plaza, then I'd keep talking to her and eventually ask her to maybe go get lunch with you sometime. It's a natural progression: coffee, then lunch, then maybe eventually dinner. This definitely sounds like the old-school, gentlemanly sort of romance, so I really hope that things work out for you! You don't see this sort of story often enough! :) Good luck!

Well, you sound like a really sweet, grounded guy so I'd suggest you just be patient, keep being nice to her and doing your part to keep the communication going when you see her around campus. Unless you have the confidence to come right out and tell her how you feel I wouldn't call her anymore. By talking to her when you see her, as opposed to calling her, it's a little bit less. Intrusive.
Good guys like you usually stand out to girls so just be yourself and you should be fine! :-)

Believe me when I tell you, I am a hopeless romantic. I am also, however, a realist, and I think you need more help from the latter than the former. That said, allow me to play devil's advocate for a moment:

First of all, I don't think you're in love with her and I think it would be a big mistake for you to convince yourself that you are. It's totally natural for you to be head-over-heels infatuated with her, but you need to realize (which I'm sure you already do, I'm just making sure) that that is not love, love is something much deeper.

Also, in obvious contradiction to what most of the other people have said, I think you should probably give it up. From what you've said, she sounds like a very nice girl. The problem with nice girls is that they tend to avoid telling guys straight up that they aren't interested in them, thus leading the guy on for months at a time. Her not calling/IMing you back is a HUGE indicator of this. Most of my female friends are "nice girls", and I can't tell you how many times I've seen them check their phone to see who is calling, agonize over whether or not to pick it up and tell the guy that they're not interested, and decide to wimp out and let it go to voice mail. If she was interested in you, she would have called you back. That's all there is to it.

Sorry for being such a downer, but I've been where you are now: blindly infatuated, desperately looking for anything that could possibly be a sign, coming up with a thousand other reasons why she hasn't called. I'm trying to tell it to you straight, so you aren't led on, clinging to a faint hope, then end up getting hurt. Good luck!

Dude if you tell her your head over heels for her right now, your going to freak her out, so if I were you, just ask her on a date. Here's the problem though, you called her and she never called you back, but then you said you saw her again at school, did you ask her why she never called you back? Do you know if she's single? Point is this don't get your mind stuck on her, you have to take it slow and my friend do not tell her how you feel unless she tells you first.

If you like her act like you like her, take her out, hold her hand, get touchy feely with her, if she likes you she will respond back, now I'm not saying you have to sleep with her. Not to be disrespectful or anything, but your a "nice guy", and I hate to say it no matter what any girl on here says, step up your game, and don't be so nice to her, but don't be mean, be funny, be cocky, otherwise you will become her friend.

Ok dude first off I know where your coming from because I'm am the same way. No drinking/smoking/sleeping around and I hate how most college guys do that. I am 19 and go to college in MO.

It sounds to me like you already love her. But you DO NOT want to rush into something like this. The good, worth while relationships are worth waiting for and you need to base it on friendship. Instead of asking her to or telling her how you feel about her get to know her a little better and see if you still feel the same way. You never know she may have some emotional baggage or secrets that aren't so attractive. Give it time and see if she feels the same way about you. Ask her if she wants to hang out or go do something with you, Take her surfing. Just anything to build a friendship first. If she's really worth it then give it time. Relationships that are rushed into rarely last for more than a couple months. If is has a strong foundation then its more likely to be a long term relationship and is usually more meaningful.

Good luck and I hope it works out for you in the end. Don't give up and don't get hurt.

Um, ok.

So you just met a girl randomly who you watched for an hour that you thought was really beautiful. And you asked her for a cup of coffee. That's not entirely normal, but that's not out of the ordinary either, I guess. It's not my style, but you certainly get points for being straightforward.

But you're talking about this girl like she is your soul mate when it sounds like you've talked to her for less than an hour. Is it creepy? Not necessarily, but man, slow down for a little bit. This is how like. I don't know, scary stalker movies start out.

If she isn't answering your calls, or returning them, I think you're doing the right thing, that being, stop calling. When you see her, when you [randomly] bump into her, making small talk is fine, and ask her if she got any of your calls and if it is ok that you are calling her. She could have a boyfriend, she could just be too nice to say "no thank you", she could be insanely busy.

You have to buy the land, before you can set the foundation, on which to start building the house, before you can live in it. That's baby steps. How often that point goes amiss on guys ages 16-1,000.

Right now, just focus on being her friend and seeing her around and asking how she is doing. It sounds like you are doing wayyyyyyy too much too quickly, and if you're coming out with stuff like this

"Not a day goes by that I don't wish she was with me so I could share my experiences and affection with her. I have so much to offer this amazing girl, and at this point I feel as I would do anything to make her happy. "

Then you probably need to take it a slower, for your sake, and for hers.

Then again, what do I know, I'm single and living in freakin' Alaska.