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What should I do...I don't want to go out with him anymore

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preppyperson19 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 18 days ago
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Ok well we have been only going out for like two weeks and he is really shy when it is just me and him hanging out and he doesn't even hold my hand. On Halloween I went to this church party thing and there was this guy there who I have had a crush on for a while. my boyfriend isn't there yet. we play some games and me and the other guy start flirting and then my boyfriend shows up and I barely talk to him because I don't get to see some of these people that often. then we go play a game kinda like man hunt. but we turn all of lights of and there were like 10 rooms and a long hallway well we play 1 round and me and my friend are it then in the second round I get caught right away but in the third round I hide with the other guy and we are in a corner and the he starts tickling me and then we start cuddling but my boyfriend keeps walking in and staring at me and the other guy we get caught but run and go hide again. I have know the other guy for a lot longer and have liked for a lot longer that I have even known my boyfriend I have been trying to get my boyfriend to dump me but he won't do it I really want us to just be friends but he won't break up with me what do you think I should do?


Update: just in case anyone was wondering I told one of my close friends what I was feeling and they told him then he confronted me about it and I told him the truth and now we are friends :)    15 days ago

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Dump him

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ILoveElectroHouse
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ILoveElectroHouse      When: 18 days ago
um wtf stop being a coward and break up with him! why the f*** did you go out with him at the first place?
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Question Asker Because I like what we had as friends and he was really cute I didn't think he would act the exact opposite after we started going out - 18 days ago
Answerer Ic.. - 18 days ago
Question Asker I don't no what to do about us now I want us to be friends still and if he breaks up with me I think it will be easier for him to do that but if I dump him he will hate me - 18 days ago
Answerer I understand but just tell him how you feel and you want to be friends. - 18 days ago
Question Asker Thank you I think I will try to do that tomorrow I just hope I don't hurt him to much :( - 18 days ago
Answerer NP let me know how it goes hmmkay? - 18 days ago
Question Asker Read update^^ - 15 days ago
Answerer Hey that's good see! what did I tell you huh hmmkay? lol - 15 days ago

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ILoveElectroHouse
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ILoveElectroHouse      When: 18 days ago
thnx for the best answer :)
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Question Asker Your welcome - 18 days ago

daniel-son
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daniel-son      When: 18 days ago
easy one. Quit being a disrespectful bitch and start being a woman. tell him you're not interested and try your luck with the guy from church. Don't wait to transition into the next relationship. if you continue dating someone you are not interested in, you're just f***ing them over. Be an adult about this one
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thelivr      When: 18 days ago
The simple answer? Break up with him. Relationships are a two way street, and trying to "bait" your boy into breaking up with you might end up only frustrating you, and hurting him, which I don't think is your intention.

Ask your boyfriend if he's happy in the relationship, and if he wants something to change, start having that conversation directly, and tell him what you need. Give him the opportunity to react, up front. If he can't provide what you want in a relationship, tell him that. It's better than sitting back and letting the relationship fizzle out without him having any idea of what's going on.

Once you've cut your boyfriend loose, I think you'll be free to pursue a relationship with this other guy. Hope this helps.
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fallingrace67
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fallingrace67      When: 18 days ago
Break up with him, its not fair to drag someone along if you don't care about them. and don't cheat if you're just planning on breaking up with him anyways.. just break up with him.
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