OK now here is some things I want to know any girls thought on OK I have friends that are... pathetic they want a girl to feel sorry for them sometimes or a better way to put it is playing on their emotions I don't in fact I sorta screwed up one relation ship some great devastation happened in my life I don't need to bore you with the details and like this was the first time a girl had ever seen me cry aside from my family members she only wanted to help and when she put her arm around me to try and comfort me I remember my friends and how screwed up they seem and even though I probably needed comfort I yelled at her saying don't pity me I still won't let any girl feel sorry for me that's why I try so hard to hide my emotions because I don't want to be anything like what my friends became here I ask are you girls aware of this? Am I right to not let any girl feel sorry for me? I need to know the truth of this area of behavior and what you think on it.
not at all if it is someone close to you and it happens to be a girl a friend and you a re genually said. if this person is your friend and cares about you she is going to try and comfort you and if your comfortable and trust this person you should let her. it also allows you to get closer and bond. it isn't so much a pity thing as it is a being a good friend thing. and it can be the best thing for a friendship/ relationship because that person wants to be there for you, if you push them away your making it harder on the other person when you push her away it makes it very difficult for her to be there for you.
Thanks that helped with clearing some thoughts in my mind and I'm not one of those people who is glad to point out other peoples issues and not my own I have a very hard time letting a girl get close to me because of the impression my friends made and I guess I spent to much time talking about myself lol I had the goal of getting an answer of the questions what do you think of about when feel sorry and if girls are aware that guys do play on girls emotions any way thanks for the answer. - 18 days ago
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Can I have a specific example of what the guys do cause usually you can tell when someone is bullsh*tting you and or just wants attention - 18 days ago
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Well I only saw one of my friends do it he was ahem trying to cry in plan sight waiting for this girl to come by I thought it was real but made to connection later and he gave some reason to the girl like I don't get to spend much time with you any more and I guess she really liked to hear him say that I mean I would say it but not present myself like that then she got him to pick himself up and they went on about a conversation is that a good enough example? - 18 days ago
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If a guy is doing it on purpose and the girl buys that sh*t she's an idiot because there's no way I would go for a guy who was openly crying, usually you are trying to hold it in that's the fisrst sign that its real. and if he said its cause we didn't think we spent enough time together, I would say ur a freak and what a line, that's bullsh*t and if a girl likes that she's a stupid bimbo - 17 days ago
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Wow that was very fury inspiring to you I'm guessing you hate hypocrites just as much or think he is one I couldn't stand it but any way I don't think I will ever show myself crying again because I don't want to look self pitied if that's the way to put it any way thanks for your honest answer some people answer with a more forgiving attitude so any way thanks. - 17 days ago
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