Me and my ex-fiancé have been having quite a few problems lately. I say ex-fiancé because we were engaged but have decided to just pull back a bit since our problems have come to a head. Anyway, long story short, he has recently come out and told me about a lot of feelings that he has been having about our relationship which I had no idea about. He hid it all really well and told me he was always too scared to say anything. Anyway, we decided to work through these things and try and give things another shot (just not with the pressure of an engagement hanging over our heads) and that is all good, but now I don't know if his feelings for me are genuine. I don't know if he's faking being in love with me or if he really is. And I don't know if he's hiding anything else from me still because he is too scare to talk to me about it like before. I'm really having my doubts but I don't know if it's just me being silly or if it's a legitimate concern. The things that he told me was stuff like he doesn't like how much weight I have put on (2 dress sizes) and that I am too withdrawn and not enough fun any more and he doesn't actually want to get married because the thought of it scares him and just stuff like that, and on top of all the revelations he said it's been that way or like 6 or more months! So now I don't know if I can trust him when he tells me that things are fine and that he loves me. How can I get him to be more honest with me in the future and how do I know if I can trust the things that he says?
How do you know how he really feels? WOah! Clue train coming;
- He breaks off engagement
- He called you fat
- He said you're no fun
- He said you're too withdrawn
- He said all these multiple times
And you want him to be MORE honest?
Ok - here's some honesty. He does want to get married one day, just not to you. He thinks that you're fat, boring and shy. And I didn't even say that - HE DID!
Wow, thanks for the honesty, but harsh much?? - 18 days ago
Answerer
I thought you wanted honesty :D - 18 days ago
Question Asker
A little bit of suger coating is always nice. :-P - 18 days ago
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Ok. For the reasons above I strongly advise that you take active steps to end this relationship. I am saying this because he's going to end it himself sooner or later and you should at least try to protect yourself. - 18 days ago
Question Asker
I was afraid you would say that. :( A lot to think about... - 18 days ago
Answerer
I wouldn't think about it too much - he doesn't sound like a very pleasant person to be around anymore. - 18 days ago
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