I need some advice from anyone who is able to give it. I've liked//loved this guy for almost three years. We've been really good friends for almost two years but I don't know how to tell him how I feel. I really don't want to ruin our friendship because he's one of my best friends. I always go to him when I have a problem and he gives me advice and cheers me up. I'm afraid if I tell him how I feel, our friendship will get complicated and he won't talk to me as much. If at all.
I don't think he likes me but all of my friends, and even some strangers, think he does. He always does little stuff for me like letting me borrow a book he has that I really want to read, or making me a collage of my favorite show "because he was bored", or downloading a movie for me that I want to watch, or just giving me a hand to help me up when I'm sitting down. He even asked me to go on a trip with him to a convention for three days. But, he always hangs out with this other girl and seems to have more fun around her than me.
He laughs more with her, and he ignores everyone else around him when he's with her. I'm just not sure what to do. Should I tell him how I feel? Should I wait for him to make a move, if he does? What should I do about the other girl? I'm willing to accept any and all advice because I'm just confused.
WHOA. Honestly you should ask him straight up if he likes that girl. Because it sounds like 50/50 even competition between you and that other chick. But does he do stuff like that for her? 3 DAYS? Did you take it? You should TRUST ME ACCEPT. By the sounds of things he thought about YOU when he was bored? DUHHHH? Also from my perspective he could be trying to make you jelous hahaha I know sounds stupid but I would if I was trying to boost my ego lol.
Basically don't come out with the truth just yet till you have asked him if he is interested in that girl If he says no (trust me play this out right and it should go smoothly) HINT HARD THAT YOU REALLY WANT HIM cause 3YEARS? DAYUMMMM couldve used that time with him? HONESTLY follow that then ask him if he thinks your pretty? I know soundz stupid if he says yes to that then tell him the truth STRAIGHT UP then tell him the WHOLE STORY ON WHY YOU DIDNT SAY ANYTHING EARLIER.
I already accepted the convention with a smile on my face. =] I would ask him if he likes the girl but I always feel kind of nosy. But thank you for the advice. I'm working with a very "iffy" guy who acts like sometimes he likes me and sometimes he doesn't. Thank you so much! - 4 months ago
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(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
Ok, I liked my best guy friend too. Its a tough thing to do, telling him I mean. When I finally didn't like him anymore, I told him that I used to and it's been two weeks and things are STILL awkward. I would normally say tell him because it sounds like he likes you, but now with having to go through this, I don't' know if it's worth it. I say wait for him to make the first move. Sorry, but I think it might be better.
I hope this helped, and I'm sorry if it got you bummed, I just wanted to tell you an answer from my own experience. Good luck!
I'll probably wait for him to make the first move because sometimes he acts like he likes me and sometimes he doesn't. I don't really have the guts to tell him how I feel either. But thank you for the advice. I think I needed to hear something from someone with the same experience. Thank you! - 4 months ago
Ok I can get where your coming from, I've been in the situation, you should say to him one day-can I have some advice- after he says sure or whatever you say-theres this guy that I really like and we've been friends for a really long time(u should also say that its not him just for now so the convo. Doesn't get awkward) but I don't know if I should tell them because it might ruin my friend ship with them- then wait a few seconds and say-what would you do, if you were in the position? - wait for him to answer and do whatever he says.
I've really played with the idea of doing this for sometime. I just have thought he would figure out I'm talking about him, even if I say it's not, and I haven't really had the guts for it yet. I'll try this and see if it works. He's a difficult guy to work with but I hope it works out for me. Thank you! - 4 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Hmm, Id say...Like to a movie and out to eat at applebees or somewhere. -as long as were having fun. I'm alright with whatever it may be that I'm doing.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Probably a lot. I love to ask questions to get to know them and ill ask any questions they have for me.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
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