My best guy friend and I ended up getting together last year, but after a year we ended up dating other people because he was confused on his feelings for me when he admitted he used to be obsessed with me. He said he didn't think it would last with her because he's confused with who he wants, however he ended up becoming official with her and then dumped her a few weeks later. He saw me at te bar and kept trying to go near me but I wouldn't have it. So he went up to my other best guy friend who he barely speaks to and asked what my deal was and why I wouldn't dance with him. And then my best friend said what are you doing your with someone what's your deal. My ex said he wasn't with anyone and he just wants to talk to me. So he ended up following me to a party and every time someone called me he'd ask me who it was. He seemed concerned that it was another guy because he probably read my away messages saying I was on a date. So I drove him home and he asked me to come in. I said no and then he ended up callin me later and asked if we could just cuddle. I said yes and it was a great night, he had total respect for me. So about a week later I saw him at the bar sitting next to my best guy friend and my friend said I heard you had little sleepover with him (I'm guessing that they talked about it) then my ex saw me and attacked my head and was all over me, then the rest of the night he was grinding with all these other girls. Then at the end of the night and grabs me and put his arms around my head and I was complaining about money and he's like why what do you need, you need some money. Then after we were all outside and my friend was like he keeps staring at you. Then he just left and walked home. What do you think his deal is? What is with the games?
This dude sounds schizo to me. What type of guys do you hang around with? It sounds like he's got more going on in his life besides this. You need to give him some space and let him clear his head. His games are the result of non reassurance in his life. He doesn't know what he's doing.
Him + you = FWB. You + Him may = relationship. You+ another guy = his games. I'm thinking from your story that he was drunk and therefore thinking he's into you. He is probably being "drunk honest" with his feelings and was into you at that time(s) but if he's not having breakfast with you or wondering what your doing Sunday afternoon then you were a bud he hooked up with and now he feels awkward around you sober, and wants to be your man at (read: at 3am with no other prospects) the club. This is an honest answer to your question hope it makes sense.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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