This friend of mine has started seeing a guy who is 16 years older than her. She is 18 years old and he is 34 and has a kid, I want to know if there is anything I could do to get her to stop seeing him. He is a friend of her dad's and I know that her sisters and mother don't like her being with him, I'm not sure how the dad feels. I don't like seeing her make these poor decisions what do I do if anything?
Update: I think she just likes having some financial help, he pays her about 100 dollars for watching his kid for a few hours. He went out and put her on his cell phone plan, but she still has a cell phone with one of her ex's and doesn't want the ex to know.
15 days ago
Update: she's started acting differently since she's been with him, not returning her friends calls and texts. She blows off her friends to go and spend time with him, it seems like she's changed her beliefs for him.
15 days ago
You don't want her to be with him because he is to old? If that is the case then I feel that that isn't enough. If he is a good man and treats her right then age should not be a barrier.
Changing her belief's for him is something she's gotta deal with, frankly in the end if she doesn't realize how detrimental that sudden change is to her own core person, she'll brood about it in the long run. The relationship won't last as long as she's letting herself become chained up in that relationship. - 14 days ago
I honestly don't think it's a poor decision unless he mistreats her, Sure the age thing but me a bit strange and I don't exactly agree with it. But if she's happy, and so is he - and he is respectful towards her. I'm sure she could do a lot worse.
There isn't anything you can do, but hope for the best, and hope she knows what she's doing. I spoke out against a friend of mine seeing an older man once who just showered her with gifts, even an Avalanche, but it didn't go too well. She didn't like what I had to say about it so I just stepped aside. Needless to say, it didn't last all that long.
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