i like a gal and wait for 8 years. I find a job in her area and hope can get better relationship. got 1 day, she told me that her boyfriend must be christian since I am not christian. I have wait for about 3 years and my first answer is really terrible, I say let me consider . in my mind I will go to church! after that I go to church too with her, but I think she is angry or reject me and suddenly go to other area and I can't get contact of her. I wait for 1 years++ and go church to wait her. after few months, she go church 1 time,when I ask her out, she treat me like normal friend and do want go out. my heart is broken and go back to my own area. I know that it should be end. I have not forgot this gal, what I can do is work hard to get the times pass. In year 2005, she msn 1 times and told me that her mum go to hospital to take operation and I told her that can I go to visit her mum and she say can. after finish visit her mum, we go out for a while and again I ask stupid question, I ask her why she go suddenly last time without notice me. Again this time she is quiet and didn't say anything. after that we didn't contact for about 4 years. last few month, she start chat with me again and last week I back to my own country since now I work in other country. I ask her go out again and she agree. we talk a lot of thing in msn and I told her that maybe this is my last time go to find her since I am too much busy and next few months my brother will go back since his wife give birth and she say that I didn't work hard to find girlfriend and I told wait for her ! then that gal told that we can go dating on Sunday. I am happy that it maybe a good sign for me. On Sunday we go out and walk around but I didn't do anything like hold her hand. after that we go to drink something and she suddenly told me that I didn't do anything make her touching and she is not ready for relationship and can't give me answer today. she say that I am good guy but she can't accept me because of pity me. can we be friend? I told her that I am near 30 years old. how long should I wait? 40 year old ? nex time I will not go back and impossible to be friend. she quiet for a while and say then we stop contact. we quiet for about half an hours, after that we go for dinner together for about 2-3 hours and told me about his family thing that happen in this 4 years. in that state, both of us is happy. when I fetch her back, I ask her go out again but she told that she is very busy this few days and not time go out even I told that I need go back soon. before she out from my car and ask me I have any thing need to say? again my stupid answer no :( when night I sms her to go out again for 2 times,she say no and I ask again. she reply no, I told you I am not free, sorry really not time, I hope I've make clear I am NOT ready for relationship. please don't wait, I do want to hurt you. now, she don't reply my msn only when I say sms say I go back and c next time, reply bye. should I still wait this gal? :
Update: we go out dating Sunday ! <--- she told that is joking since she think that I am not in relationship
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