There is this girl who was my classmate in high school, I confessed to her through texting and got rejected (yeah 2.5 years together in high school we never really had any conversation). But she said let's be friends and I accepted. We've been texting back and fourth when she was in another city, now she's back in my city. But whenever she texts me, she only talk about what's going on with her life, like when her dad bought her a laptop, how she doesn't like the people in her neighbor, even what's the weather like in there etc... But she almost never asked anything about me. There is only one time, it's when she asked me how it felt like in a new university, and that's pretty much it. Today the texting got to a new level - Instant Messaging. Again, I kept asking and she replied with short answers. Then she suddenly stopped replying when I asked her where she learned to swim. I tried to log out and log back, but when I ask her again she logged out. Maybe it's because she's using an older version of Y!M (it's say her version doesn't support video calling, so I guess it's old), but logging out right after I send a message can't be a coincidence. I really appreciate it when she told me about her life, but now I feel like she thinks I'm boring and just want to get rid of me or something. Maybe the change from high school to university had some effects on her? (at least it does for me). Or maybe I'm just imagining things... Or I should just text her about my problems without waiting for her to ask. But I don't think she care.
She's really a beauty, but she's charming in real life and somehow looks cute to me.
Now she's back online. Ignored me. Great. Today is my birthday (of course she doesn't know), I just want to tell her for a b-day wish, but this is too much.
Honestly, why are you texting or talking to this girl online? Women aren't going to go for someone that does this. Calling is confidence, and women want confidence above all else. Talk to her on the phone, spend time with her in person, and be confident and assertive, then you'll be able to find out where you really stand, and make an impression.
1. Completely end it. If she is unwilling to set aside her problems and listen to you then you don't deserve her. A relationship involves giving and taking. You shouldn't give up your needs and problems just to listen to her laptop problems. You deserve someone who is worried about you...or at least says "happy birthday".
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2. Play hard to get. If you talk as much as it seems then if you cut off all contact then maybe she will contact you. It gets boring if people talk about the same thing over and over. Make it more exciting. Make her chase you...and if she doesn't contact you then maybe it is a good sign that you need to move on and find some one else...someone better.
Life in college greatly differs from high school. However, I think this isn't the real reason for her lack of comunication. She isn't interested and seems too engrossed with her own life. Its ashame that she couldn't just level with you, but a lot of times people take the easy way out Deem it her loss and try to move on. It's disappointing however you deserve someone completely into you and your life. Have a Happy Birthday!
i think you need to move on hun! she doesn't seem like she's very interested in anyone other than herself really :P my advice is to forget about her, and find someone else, someone nicer :)
Have you ever actually talk to her, I mean the kind of talk where you move your mouth and sound comes out and then you listens to that sound and she moves her mouth and make sound in reply. If not try that. Though it sounds to me that that you should just throw in the towel and move on. You sound like your stressing over someone that just does not give a damn.
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