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Is very creative a good thing?

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Sirhc001 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 13 days ago
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I've always been super creative with everything. Setting up puzzles and everything just to give a gift. I have NEVER just given a gift without being inventive to a girl I like. Is this a good thing? One of my good just regular girl-friends told me that it's actually annoying. I thought girls liked creative. Is creative good or no?


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cun7n1nja
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cun7n1nja      When: 13 days ago
What?! That girl is crazy, haha, and definitely in the minority. I agree with AtomizerJr in that she might feel threatened by your talents in that aspect, which could be why she tried to put you down.

Creative is great. When it comes to gifts, I'd rather receive a gift that you put a lot of thought and creativity into than some generic gift that any guy would get for any girl. Giving a girl flowers is foolproof and always appreciated, but it's also SAFE. I'd be much more surprised and intrigued if someone took a risk and found/made a gift that took a lot of thought, and that is based more on my personality and interests. I would feel that that person really 'gets' me, if that makes sense. I'm attracted to creative individuals in general.
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lekeke
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lekeke      When: Yesterday
creativity is great...i don't see y someone finds that annoying...wat that tell me is that you care enough to plan something out or make it form your heart...plus if it's something kinda personal that you know I would like all the better...a lot of people lack the creative instinct these days and it, in my opinion, is awesome that you have the heart to do such things
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kdizzleforizzle91
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kdizzleforizzle91      When: 9 days ago
Creativity is beautiful. Expressing yourself through the arts gives others a look into your soul and inner-most thoughts. Anyone who doesn't think so is a boring person, who is probably jealous of you or feels about about not ever having another person make things for them. I'd love to have a friend like you... and I do. Haha. See? I told you I could help you out with your problems too. =) Thanks again. And good luck!
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aeon_flux
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aeon_flux      When: 11 days ago
Ok, how "creative" is ur creative? is it making vegetables look like her body parts? I think in general creative-ness is really cool but not when its crass or insulting. If its genuinely from ur heart and you had good intentions about it, then keep the creative juices flowing, why not :)
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Question Asker It's sweet stuff. Haha. I'm not that kinda guy. It's stuff like setting up a big scavenger hunt that requires her to go around her house then over to my house and around my house. Every now and then she finds a small gift with another note telling her where to go. So it's a lot of small stuff. Then the last thing was a big build a bear (her favorite) that I made all my own. Your supposed to name em so I named him her favorite name ever. She seemed to love it. Good? - 10 days ago
Answerer Coming from a creative background that is def kudos ++ material! Keep it up, she's def a lucky girl :) - 10 days ago
Question Asker She cheated on me. Lol. But oh well. Thanks =) - 10 days ago
Answerer You're kidding?! what a douche bag. Hope you got creative with the Voodoo doll :) - 10 days ago

mormongirlmichl
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mormongirlmichl      When: 11 days ago
no way... creative is a good thing! It's better to get something that someone made, and obviously put some thought into instead of a nice necklace you bought at the store or something... when you've put some thought into something, girls usually like it... don't know what's wrong with your girl-friend... lol
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TexGal      When: 13 days ago
My goodness, I would melt if a guy gave me something creative! You just keep that up no matter what anyone says!
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yoursolutions
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yoursolutions      When: 13 days ago
it good maybe she's jealous, I mean I do the same thing and people usually really appreciate the thought and effort put in to make a gift just for them. I think you should keep doing what your doing. creativity is great embrace it for sure.
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AtomizerJr
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AtomizerJr      When: 13 days ago
In general, creativity is good.

Some people, however, won't want you to be any more creative than they are because they're insecure and weak. When you do something creative, some girlfriends will say that's so kewl! Then they'll turn around and snipe at little details, tell you how you should've done it differently. I used to have a boss who'd _tell me_ that he valued by work, was impressed by my unusual ideas. But when it came time to actually apply my new ideas, he's shoot 'em all down, or wait until I was finished to tell me that I should've done it differently.

So don't take it personally when small-minded weaklings don't want to deal with you as an equal and try to drag you under...
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