Both 17. To describe the moment in a word “magic.” He was everything I ever wanted in a guy. His friends were interested in me too, but I felt a strong energy from him. I told him that I like hanging with guys over girls, and I was looking for some new friends. We clicked instantly. He was very infatuated wit me. He constantly complemented me. We hung out a few times. A week later, we were intimate (on top of the clothes). People said he was a player but he always made me feel more than comfortable. He was fine with just kissing. A month later he told me (in front of all our friends) that he loved me. Literally showered me w/affection. I felt the same but I did not tell him. I felt shy and asked that he back off me. He did and left. He seemed upset. I didn’t call him and was not allowed to have boys call my house so he didn’t call. I’d see him often staring at me intensely. He then started to go out of his way to be mean to me. He would flirt with girls right in front of me then look to see my reaction. He also told my best friend that I was weird. I was sad but didn’t show it. I flirted with guys to get even and my friends said he was always watching. He found excuses to argue with me and even triggering conflicts with me and other girls-especially his new gf. I told him to never speak my name again and acted like I hated him. One night I ran into him. He was nice, but I was so furious I ignored him. When he cursed me, we were arguing (heated). I left before things escalated. My big bro talked to him and he stopped bothering me altogether. He still stared and sometimes I noticed he looked sad. Especially if a guy was flirting with me. I left for college. I saw him once (Christmas vacation) and offered kind words because I heard his cousin had been killed. A year later, he was sitting in my living room talking to my dad ( I didn’t even know he knew him) about how lousy things were with his girlfriend. My father told me that he had a child. However, when he saw me, he looked at me with that “look”. We said hello and that was that. I was dating someone else so I didn’t think about it much. I am 28 now. Two years ago I saw him at a corner store. I was with a really pretty friend of mine. He shyly approached me and asked me for a hug. It was sweet. Again, I showed little emotion. I never had a guy make me feel as special as he did. I feel somehow that I am to blame for the way things turned out. I miss him terribly and feel so so stupid. I still love him. Always will. Even though I hear they are not together, he has a child now, which is something to consider. I still can’t get him out of my head. More now than ever. I find myself dating guys only who remind me of him. No help. I think he feels similar, but I don’t know where he is and because I never gave him a clue how I really felt, I don’t think it’s very enthusiastic. I’m dying inside and don’t know what to do. It was my foolish pride that helped chase away the love of my life. What should I do?
'Both17' but your profile says your over 25... you lier. He told you he loves you in front of his friend and you said 'back off', that's just about the the coldest thing I have ever heard, you cut him real deep. You were to and are to blame for how things worked out. But LET IT go this happened years ago the way you wrote it over a decade a go that's a lot of wasted time to still be swooning over somebody. But if you really want to do something about it il tell you what to do its quite simple. TELL HIM THE TRUTH.
Thank you for responding. You're absolutely right. had I been honest from the start I would not be in this predictament. Oh, I meant we were both 17 at the time. - 8 days ago
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