Ok. I have this ex that I was with for 3 years off and on. We have this thing were regardless of who we are with we still somewhat be together but not really. Now I am not with anyone and he has this girl that he say "he love her" but he tells all the his girls he love them. I believe he honestly love me and so does all his friends because we have been through so much. Its crazy cause I don't know what to do I love him and sorta want to be with him. He with this girl but if I want some sex or something he'll tell me where he is.
You are in a very difficult and familiar situation. I have been through it with a woman for over two years and 5 or 6 break ups. We broke up a month ago and she has just started calling me out of the blue several times a day. I see the trend, They want the security of having you but don't want the commitment. I have made up my mind to move on and you probably should too.!
I have tried to move on and I always end up back to him. It's like we are going to always love each other but something is standing in the way and it's not his girl because she doesn't matter. It is something else because it never last. - 7 months ago
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And that's probably how it will always be. There's a big difference in loving someone and being in love. You have to get to a point where the pain of continuing the relationship on there terns out weights the temporary pain that will come by moving on. I'm not saying that at some point down the road a healthy relationship is not possible( God knows I would be dishonest if I said I didn't have those hopes in my situation) but at it's not fair or healthy for you to stay when he won't commit. - 7 months ago
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