I have a really good friend and we are always joking around and horse playing. I love him more than anything in this world but I Don't think he will ever love me back. He has a girlfriend and they seem to be happy but some of the stuff we joke about is kinda inappropriate for someone taken to say. It could really make a partner jealous or upset. I think he is so out of my league. Is he interested of just simply being friendly?
He might or might not be interested. Even though he has a girlfriend, relationships don't last forever. Look at the divorce rate. My parents got divorced after 12 years. So I'm just saying, relationships don't last forever. Also, guys generally like other girls even if they're dating. But who knows. If he feels comfortable talking to you about "certain things" then he might like you back. You can never tell how a guy truly feels. They don't express emotions well. Don't think he's out of your league. That's just hurting your self-esteem. He could like you. Look and labels don't matter. Just kind of go with the flow and see where he goes with it.
Thanks. I really appreciate your advice and I think you could be right. I am just scared that he will graduate and they will get married because she is already 18 and his b-day is in june. I just am so confused. - 7 months ago
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I highly doubt that they will run off and get married. Like I told you, some relationships don't last forever. I'm sure it will work out for you. Good luck! - 7 months ago
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He just likes getting your attention but probably has no real interest in you. And if the things are "inappropriate" that you do ,then you should stop doing them because you guys are making yourselves look bad. Do you want to be known as the type of girl who is always messing with taken men? Does he want to look like the kind of guy that fools around on his girlfriend? I would stay away from this guy cause he just sounds like trouble.
It's nothing like "that" we just joke about stuff and he would never cheat on his girlfriend he is way to nice of a guy. We both are outstanding students and aren't known as that. We have close to if not 4. 0s. People don't see us as that and it isn't just him it is also my other friend(his best friend). It is simply stuff I think a girlfriend wouldn't want their boyfriend talking to another girl about. - 7 months ago
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If you think his girlfriend wouldn't like him talking to you about stuff like that, then you shouldn't be doing that is all I'm saying. If he's disrespecting his girlfriend like that, then he would do the same thing to you if you were his girlfriend. - 6 months ago